Archive 1: 2012-2016
137: Intuitive Business Insights with Life Strategy and Business Coach Sasha Laghonh
Do you feel that sometimes you plan too much and don't take enough action? Sasha Laghonh from SashaTalks.com has the solution for you. She shares her secrets to internet traffic, keeping your emotions in check so they help you, and how you can get that tough love alternate perspective.
Sasha Laghonh: Hi Robert, thank you for having me.
Robert Plank: Can you tell me about what it is that you do, what makes you special?
Sasha Laghonh: What makes me special? Well, I have two parallel career paths. My initial career path has to do with business, I have a Bachelors from Austen University with business and also an MBA in Global Management. I started out along my corporate career path where I do a lot of business development and research in the market. That is how I work corporate contracts, helping out executives streamline their business plans and help them with their corporate strategy. On the other side, I also initially started out Sasha Talks where I was selling special counselling services. You're doing the readings and it's more metaphysical work and then a common person would say, well those two interests are really polarizing, because one is really rational and judgmental and the other one is really fluid and it cannot be measured. It got to the point where Sasha Talks started growing at a faster rate than I had anticipated, that I had merged my business consulting businesses onto Sasha Talks, so I could standardize the audience and I wouldn't be chasing two different worlds at the same time.
Robert Plank: Okay, so how did any of this come to be? I know you said that you have this business background and you have this website. How did you get your counselling clients and things like that?
Sasha Laghonh: Sasha Talks was already a part of our ID in theory by the time 2008 came along. When the economy started going down, a lot of my corporate opportunities started getting down sized because of budgets. I told myself, what are some skill sets that I haven't fully capitalized upon. That's when Sasha Talks was launched and I went out, I was doing radio shows, pod casting and at the same time, I was employed by third party websites where you get to defend your services. Whether people are paying you by the minute or buying small packages to talk to you on the phone, or for online chat. At that time I was pressed in between 5 consistent platforms, which are websites owned by private owners. That was providing a form of income, but it got to a point where I said that, if I am going to be helping other people off of third party website, why can I not do that through my own.
At that time I slowly started marketing Sasha Talks and it picked up momentum through Blog Talk radio, BBS radio and basically building a lot of speaking engagements where you're marketing yourself out there. You're giving people samples of your work. You don't have to work for free, but you also have to encourage people to invest their resources in you. Slowly that picked up momentum and I've gotten this far because of word of mouth. The best compliment you can get is a referral. If people have tried you out and they've paid you for your service, they'll share the good news with other people, but if you have bad news, it will travel faster. You have to be mindful of what type of publicity are you attracting. Even though you cannot control the perception of the audience, at the end of the day keep at it and be consistent in what you're offering.
Robert Plank: Okay. That makes a lot of sense. I like a couple of things about that. I like that, first of all, when you saw the economic downturn and you saw people getting down sized, you said, well I have the skill, you're a good speaker or you can feel out someone's business. Now I'm going to change things up a little bit so that now I can replace these business clients that I'm using. The other thing that I like too, is your use of these third party websites. You said, word of mouth and then get traffic from having a Blog Talk radio show. Is there anything else that you look for as far as the traffic you send to your website?
Sasha Laghonh: Other than that, also when I ran Sasha Talks, I think Sasha Talks is composed of three different blogs up to date. The latest blog highlights all of the guests that I host on the platform. Initially the blog had to do with love and relationships because for some reason, a lot of women and men, men usually don't talk about it out loud, have this interest in exploring their love lives and they want to have that looked into. It's usually love and relationships, career and sometimes they want to know a little bit about their life path. Exploring about what goes on within themselves when it comes to the social services. Of course there is a grey area, because those readings fall under the entertainment realm. I'm not delivering a science, it's not a formula, there's so many different spiritualists out there that focus on different types of services, so I have to make that clear. Around the business aspect of it, before I started doing professional coaching, I was doing academic coaching. It gave me an opportunity to slowly merge different types of coaching that I'm doing and complement that with Sasha Talks. It's not completely entertainment, it's an entertainment platform, but it's also a very hands on practical tool that people could apply in their lives if they choose to.
Robert Plank: That sounds pretty cool and that sounds like something that can help a lot of people. Can you kind of walk us through, say someone, they hear about you from some other website or word of mouth and they say, okay, I want to hire Sasha to figure out my career path or something. What's the process someone goes through once they hear from you, they go to the website, what are the steps they take?
Sasha Laghonh: If they've gotten the contact tapes, there's a drop down for requesting a certain type of service and I will follow up with them, usually they hear back from me within 2 to 3 days max. Usually I try to do it within 24 hours. Then I ask them a couple of preliminary questions, to gauge their interest and if they happen to be the right clientele that I work with. I will only work with people who are ready to take action in their life, they're serious about it and they're not just fooling around because they're bored and they're just sending out requests to find out what services are available.
Even though a lot of people have money out there and they're willing to pay you, I'm not only out there for the money, but I want the satisfaction that they're making the right investment. When they walk away, they can say that working with Sasha was worthwhile, because I learned a lot and now I'm applying what she shared with me. Sometimes people are under the impression as, I hate my job, I want this to happen, how come I don't have love in my life, let me go to a coach or spiritualist, pay them and overnight they're going to fix my life. The fixing can only be done by the client. I can only provide you with the ingredients and the tools of how to go about fixing it, or how to find your perfect career opportunity. Or how to have a healthy relationship, how to attract money, how to build a business. Those are things that can be taught to a degree, but if the person doesn't want to apply it, it doesn't mean a thing to me and they'll be out of money.
Robert Plank: Basically, you have this initial meeting to figure out if they're coachable, and if they're someone that you'll actually feel fulfilled with by meeting with them I guess.
Sasha Laghonh: Yes, because I'm looking for results. Initially, when I started out, I think I was a bit more hopeful, but you are more invested in your clients' well being, but I would find clients that didn't care that much. They thought that I could just go to one person, have a one time meeting, pay them, and they'll fix my life problems. It doesn't quite work that way. It's more of an engagement, and it's a two way street. I am there to help you and there to coach you. At the end of the day, once they walk away, I want to make sure that they're able to sustain the level of success that they want once they achieve it.
Robert Plank: That makes a lot of sense, you can only kind of show them the way. You have this first meeting and then if you decide that they want to move forward, then what's the next step.
Sasha Laghonh: Once we decide that we'll be working together, then I give them a handful of questions and then we start our sessions, whether it's on Skype, chat or phone and then I work them through, what are their challenges and stuff that they want to learn new stuff about.
Typically, when clients come to me, lately the questions that I get have to do with entrepreneurship. How do I take the first step? Part of it that I usually drill into them, is that plan ahead of time. You can't go to work on a Monday morning if you're working corporate and thinking, I hate my job, I'm going to run out and just start a business. All that requires planning and a process. There's the other hand where I meet people where they plan so much to become an entrepreneur, but they haven't put any of the plan into action. It says they haven't taken any steps to move away from being dependent on, whether it's corporate America or any third party that's providing them with an income. You have to learn how to strike a balance, but also have to explain to people that want to make a change of why it's necessary to take action. I know a lot of people who will plan, but they will not take any action.
Robert Plank: What's the fix for that?
Sasha Laghonh: Typically, I ask them what is holding them back and what are the emotional blocks within them? It could be anxiety and fear, because you can understand anxiety, if you're getting paid bi-weekly, you're going to go from getting paid bi-weekly to whenever you make your first sale. The goal that entrepreneurship has to do with, not only working for yourself, but having the passion that will drive you to the point of creating consistent form of income. Unless they could answer those health questions, I cannot help them. It's one of those things, you could give a person who needs help, all of the resources out there in the world, but if they're not ready to take that leap of faith, it's as they haven't done anything yet. They need to feel emotionally secure to say, I'm going to take a leap of faith and no matter what happens, or what the outcome is, I can live with it.
Robert Plank: How does someone get to that point?
Sasha Laghonh: I feel that some of my clients get to that point with time. Not just time heals, because I think time accommodates. Once somebody brings your attention of what is holding you back, what do you fear and if some of you know how to plan and you have a contingency plan and you have the right support telling you, you have a good idea. This is the time to take those steps. If you have the wrong people surrounding you, whether its friends or family, or people who care for you, and you want to be an entrepreneur but your idea, I don't like to say, it sucks, a lot of people will hold their true opinions back and kind of set up a person to fail. They don't want to be that messenger. People are entitled to their opinions, it doesn't meant the potential entrepreneur has to agree with them, but you need someone to give you objective and honest feedback. At the end of the day, I don't have anything vested in there. I'm not investing money in them, I'm investing tools in them and I want them to do well.
Robert Plank: Would you say that that's a big part of what you do? Being that objective person and maybe not being mean on purpose, but also not just telling them what they want to hear?
Sasha Laghonh: Right and I will say my strategy is tough love, but I'm not someone who's loud, vulgar or into yelling or any of that. I do bring alternative perspective, where I ask them all these questions that say, what are you going to do if this, this doesn't work out? What is your backup plan if you get rejected for funding, do you have a business plan? Do you even know the market that you're selling to? All of these questions that they should be able to have an idea. Sometimes people are in love with the idea of starting a business, but they have no clue where to begin, which is okay. They have to do their own homework and paying a stranger can only get you so far, but on a bad day, let's say if you're working for yourself and the economy goes bust, and we can't afford all of the talent around you, you still need to know how to run your own home. You still need to know how to run your own business. Somebody has to come in and say, have you thought about these things? Of course, with everything that we do in our life, no matter how many years you've been working for yourself, there's always something new that we learn in the process. You can't depend on other people forever.
Robert Plank: Right. That makes a lot of sense. Out of everything we've talked about today, or maybe there's something else, but you have all these coaching clients and some of them are uncertain about transitioning out of a day job, or some of them have these missing pieces in their business. Do you see a common problem or like a number one problem that you keep seeing over and over with these coaching and consulting clients that you have?
Sasha Laghonh: One of my pet peeves is that usually they pay too much attention to what everybody else is doing that they jump on the bandwagon without even questioning, do I need to do what my competitor's doing, do I need to do what my friend is doing. My family member told me it works out perfect for them, so I should do it too. I want individuals to question things that they're exposed to. Question information that comes your way, question the source. People may mean well, but at the end of the day, if you're putting up your own resources and your own money and you run dry, you don't want to be standing there alone in bankruptcy court, blaming everybody else. I would say, just be accountable for the financial decisions you make, be accountable for the people that you bring into your professional path. We don't get to control who comes in or leaves, but be responsible for those who become part of your business. At the end of the day, you're the one putting the food on the table.
Robert Plank: I like that and yeah, I like that whole message. I think that it's really easy to get bullied and get pushed around by someone else's opinions that it's easy for them to make because it doesn't affect them, but it sure as heck affects you.
Sasha Laghonh: Yes, and even though it is a business, you should bring your passion and your energy into it, but keep your emotions in check. Sometimes people get so emotional, whether for better or worse, that we forget to be rational when you have to make these decisions. They get caught up in the moment and then they might realize, somebody goes to the bank and they end up walking out with a larger loan than they need and later in time they realize that I didn't need all that money and I don't have the resources to pay it back. Or they get excited with a friend doing business that they're not well equipped to navigate through the friendship when the times get rough, because this is getting in the way. There's so many different variables about balancing the rational and the emotional aspects of running a business and living your life day to day.
Robert Plank: Interesting, it sounds like a big part of this, it seems like there are a lot of things that can trip people up, but having that objective person to talk to and listen to, sounds like it's super important. I like the way that you explain your coaching, that you don't just necessarily tell someone what to do, but you kind of ask all the right questions and get them to think things through about their life and about their business.
Sasha Laghonh: Yes and I want people to know that even if they go seek out a coach, a spiritualist, whichever type of professional, to know that they are qualified to grant you guidance. To always question your source, it doesn't mean that it's a one way type of communication that they come to me. They could ask me questions about what my thoughts are, but at the end of the day, I always tell them, it's not what Sasha will do or what your friend will do, or what your family member will do, you are the one making the decisions and you have to live with the ramifications. You have to feel comfortable in your own skin. If you feel you're getting bullied by people, then chances are high that you need to change the type of people you are seeking information from, or doing business with. You're working for yourself and if you don't feel comfortable in your own home per se, then something is wrong.
Robert Plank: Oh yeah, it's hard to disagree with that one. Kind of along those lines as far as people who, if someone out there they want to make a change, they want to fix things, they want to get a coach, they want to read about what you have to say and they want to find out all about Sasha, where can they go and where should they go to find out all that information?
Sasha Laghonh: Sure, they're welcome to go to SashaTalks.com. Even thought they don't need a session or a package of sessions, because I'm not in the business of keeping people to become a forever client. I'm there just to help them and I always treat each client as if we are not meant to meet again, this is what I'm parting with so they know how to proceed forward. If they need a critique for their business or something, I am available again at SashaTalks.com.
Robert Plank: Awesome, so thanks for not only sharing what you have to say about people helping themselves, but I also like the little behind the scenes bit about how you kind of adapted yourself and kind of adjusted a coaching business so that it would continue to grow, even when the whole outside world changed on you. Pretty cool stuff, SashaTalks.com. Thanks for being on the show Sasha.
Sasha Laghonh: Thank you Robert, for having me.
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136: You Are in the Money Getting Business: Selling Domination with Rodney Hughes
Rodney Hughes, author of the book "Selling Domination: Your Blueprint to Selling More and Generating an Extraordinary Income" tells us how he helps companies all over the world, especially those who don't even know what business they're in! (The money getting business.) He also details the four steps you can take when looking to improve any business' profits in 90 days or less:
1. How you business handles obscurity
2. Missed opportunities
3. What's already working that you can enhance?
4. Where are you wasting time and effort?
Rodney Hughes: Hey, thank you. I'm so happy to be here.
Robert Plank: Cool, and I'm happy that you are here. Could you tell me about what it is that you do, and what makes you different and special?
Rodney Hughes: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. For the last decade, what I've been focused on is I create sales and marketing solutions for various different organizations. I've worked with the Federal Government, non-profit organizations. I've worked with many different private sector organizations and what I do is I pretty much go in, figure out where the gaps are in the business and create strategies to solve that. Whether it be online sales and marketing solutions or whether it's in-person sales and marketing solutions.
Robert Plank: Could you give us an example of that?
Rodney Hughes: Yeah, yeah. As an example, I'll give you my most recent one. There's a gentleman that I'm working with, that I just got finished working with actually, who owns a ... He has a barbecue company. He does barbecue sauces and things of that nature. One of the things we did for him is we created a lead generation website for him, so that he can start collecting the contact information of the people that are interested in what he's offering, as far as sauces and things of that nature. We're helping him and we helped create a strategy that we're trying to get him to have at least 5,000 new subscribers over the course of the next 2 years, so that he can have a basis for driving online sales.
Robert Plank: Awesome so you're making the whole website for him, an opt-in for him, traffic and all that good stuff?
Rodney Hughes: Yeah, all that type of stuff. Then also helping him come up with online and offline strategies to actually drive that forward.
Robert Plank: Like what?
Rodney Hughes: Say it again?
Robert Plank: Like what? What strategies are you using to get those 5,000 subscribers coming in?
Rodney Hughes: This particular gentleman, he goes to various flea markets and various different retail locations. While he's out, what I mentioned to him was that it's one thing to get that immediate dollar, right? Which you definitely always want to drive sales but the reality is that sometimes situations come up, either people didn't feel like buying right there in that moment or maybe they might want to buy a little bit later or whatever, and so what we did was we said, "Listen. When you have people and you're giving out samples, hey offer this irresistible offer right here that's going to intrigue them and make them want to actually jump on your list.
Then, once a week, you want to actually give a recipe of the week or just ... " I tried to teach him how to also do a little bit of video blogging as well, so that he can have other ways of actually engaging with these people once they get on his list. He's building his list primarily through when he's giving samples to people, he has an irresistible offer that he shares with them. They decide whether or not they want to jump on his list at that time.
Robert Plank: Interesting. Are you seeing, with these businesses that you're helping out such as like this barbecue man and stuff like that, are you seeing the pieces that are missing for a lot of these businesses, is it the really simple stuff? Or is it more like advanced and complicated stuff?
Rodney Hughes: 9 times out of 10, it's really the simple stuff. I'll tell you like I told him. It surprises me, just think about this for a second, think about how many businesses that you've been to personally, okay, over the last year that you had a really, really great experience. Maybe it was a new restaurant like have you gone to a new restaurant lately, that you really, really liked?
Robert Plank: In the past few months, yeah.
Rodney Hughes: While you were at that restaurant, at any time throughout that ... From the moment that you walked in that restaurant, did they try to get to actually engage with you and get you to opt-in to some type of either coupon service or anything along those lines?
Robert Plank: Opting in no but, if they had, I for sure would have opted in.
Rodney Hughes: Got it. I want you to really think about this for a second, okay? The average American comes in contact with, it's estimated, comes in contact with somewhere between 5 to 7,000 ads every single day. That might be shooting it a little bit short if they're in a huge market like Atlanta, New York, Los Angeles or somewhere like that. If they're coming in contact ... If the average American is coming in contact with that many ads, what that means is that, simultaneously, they're coming in contact with 5,000 to 7,000 different promises every day.
Because they're coming in contact with all of that, all of these promises, all of these offers and all of ... Just all the stuff, what ends up happening is it creates an environment where the average person is trying to block out a whole bunch of different stuff, right? As a business owner, if you do a good enough job, think about all the things that you have to do, that restaurant had to do to actually even become a blip on your radar to where they were even able to get you to come in and try their actual food. Now, they did all this work. They probably invested thousands of dollars in advertising.
Then when you come in there, you have an amazing experience but then, when you leave, they didn't even ask to connect with you. Now what ends up happening is, as a business owner, that forces that business owner to have to borrow on other people's lines of communication. That's really all you're doing when you're advertising. When you advertise it on the Superbowl, you paid millions of dollars because you're trying to borrow the Superbowl's actual line of communication with their end users, right? When you advertise on the radio, when you advertise anywhere, you're paying to borrow on the line of communication. Now you've done all this work to get a person to come into your establishment, and you're not even attempting to connect with them so that you can own your own line of communication.
Robert Plank: Interesting.
Rodney Hughes: That is what we call, and I'm not trying to be rude here, but it will, in business, that is penny wise and dollar foolish. What you're doing is you're doing a lot of work upfront to get them to come through the door so that you can make that immediate sale, but what about all the other sales, right? Is it possible that restaurant that you went to, that you would want to go back sometime, right?
Robert Plank: If I liked it, for sure.
Rodney Hughes: Yeah, if you liked it, yeah, you would want to go back. Guess what? Is it also possible that you're distracted with all kinds of stuff, stuff going on at the job, stuff going on in your family, stuff, just regular day-to-day habitual things that you do every day. Is it possible that you might not ... It might not cross your mind to go back there? If they would have been connected with you and would have found creative ways to stay in communication with you, you might have would have thought to yourself, oh man. It's been a minute since I went there, maybe I should go back.
Robert Plank: Would you say that with these businesses that you're helping out, is this one of the first things you look for? Some way for them to capture some leads and follow up.
Rodney Hughes: From my ... No, well yes and no. When I look at a business or when my company, as a whole, looks at a business, me and my team, what ends up happening is I train my entire team ... I guess you could say our unique selling proposition is that we help companies explode their sales performance in 90 days or less, okay? The way that we do that is we really focus on identifying 4 key things. Number one is how well do they handle obscurity, right? Here's the reality. If you're in a place of obscurity as a business, then you can have the greatest product in the world but I can't do business with you if I don't know you exist. Very first thing I look at, with any organization, is how well are they at overcoming obscurity?
The second thing is I look for missed opportunities. Where are you missing opportunities? This particular scenario that I just explained to you, that was a missed opportunity. Those are missed opportunities where he's not trying to connect, where he wasn't previously connecting with people who showed interest in what it is he had to offer. That's why we created strategies to take advantage of that, and to actually effectively address that situation, okay?
The third thing that I look for is, I look for what's already working in the business. I try to ... We try to enhance that. If you're knocking it out the park, selling a whole bunch of different sauces, how can we enhance that? How can we get people to buy more sauces or how can we get people to buy other complementary products or whatever?
Then the fourth thing that we look for is we look at where is the business wasting time and wasting effort? At the end of the day, there's no difference between your business and Microsoft. There's no difference between Microsoft and Berkshire Hathaway. At the end of the day, every single business has 24 hours to get things done. If you're investing a lot of time, energy and resources into things that are not working, that are not getting you the results that you really need to get done, you're better off just eliminating those things. When we couple all 4 of those things together and take a look at an organization, it allows us to create a sales and marketing solution that can really drive things forward and do it in a very fast manner.
Robert Plank: Cool so it's customized to them, then?
Rodney Hughes: Yes.
Robert Plank: Just to make sure that I got your 4 points right. You look at these 4 things. Number one, how they handle obscurity. Number 2, the missed opportunities. Number 3, what's already working that you can enhance and then number 4, where they're wasting the time and effort.
Rodney Hughes: Correct.
Robert Plank: I mean something that you mentioned a few minutes ago, a little bit off-handedly, is with this particular case study that you're mentioning, you get .. In this case, what he was doing was he was going to these events, he was getting people on a list and sending them offers. You mentioned really quick that you had some creative ways to get people back to the business. Do you have any cool, just creative things you've been doing lately, that are maybe not the usual stuff, in order to help someone's business?
Rodney Hughes: Got it. I mean it really varies because something that is not usual in one industry might be completely usual in another industry, right? It's not usual to have an opt-in type of situation for a company that sells barbecue sauce. I think that sometimes business owners, they are trying to be super-unique with things and I think you can be unique sometimes just by looking at what's working in other industries. As an example, let's say the drive-through window, right? The drive-through window actually, at restaurants, actually came from the banking industry.
They got that from the banking industry and it allowed them to be very effective. The drive-through concept was not a new concept but it was new to an industry. They were able to implement it. Now, it's just almost a common way of doing business now for fast food industries. What I usually do is I look at other industries, see what's working very well and see is there any way that we can make that work for a particular business in a particular situation?
Robert Plank: I like that and that's pretty powerful. That makes me think of ... I mean I wish more businesses had drive-throughs, right? Or even I remember a few years ago, I was playing around with Domino's Pizza's website. I think I might have bought a Domino's Pizza one time and then, at some point, I ended up on their text blast list. I know for sure that I didn't unsubscribe from it but I might have just stopped getting the messages. I stopped buying from them, but I thought it was cool that they would not only be building this list of all these SMS subscribers but they would go and send a message right before lunch.
Rodney Hughes: Yeah.
Robert Plank: That's a cool thing. In any other industry that's not doing that, that seems like a pretty easy way to find the low hanging fruit there.
Rodney Hughes: Yeah, absolutely. I mean, at the end of the day, I think that ... See, here's the deal. One of the ways that I like ... In my book, the very first principle that I mention in my book is the 10 principles of selling domination. It says, "You're only in one business. You're in the money getting business and never forget that." The reason why I say that, the reason why that's the leading principle, is because the problem that a lot of people have is, number one, they have no earthly idea what business they're in, okay? Every single business, there's only one business on God's green earth.
Hey, guess what? Wells Fargo is in the exact same business as Walmart. Walmart is in the exact same business I'm in. I'm in the exact same business you're in and so on and so on and so on. We're in the money getting business and that's not about being greedy. It's about focus, right? What people ... If you don't understand that you're in the money getting business, then your focus isn't going to be right. If you understand that you're in the money getting business, now you maybe in a different industry, there are many different industries, many different products, many different services.
If you understand that you're in the money getting business, the reason why that will help you tremendously is because then you'll get to understand like, "Okay. If we're all in the same business, then I might easily be able to see what's going on in an industry that I know nothing about but that is working ... I see is working very well. I might be able to get something from that and make it work in my industry." At the end of the day, the goal is always the same which is to find people that you can serve, help and collect money in exchange for serving and helping them. Does that make sense?
Robert Plank: Yeah, it does. I think that's some pretty dang good advice because I think that, when I was younger, I would not really pay a lot of attention to other businesses. I think that once I started looking at these other businesses that seemed to be doing well and saying, "Okay. Here's what they're doing to get people in." I can guesstimate, "Okay they get this number of people in per day and they're probably making this amount of money." It helps to, instead of in the past I would write these other businesses off, to look at it from an outsider's perspective, almost like a reverse engineering perspective and just look at what it is that they're doing. It seems like if they keep doing it, it must be working for them.
Rodney Hughes: Yes, exactly.
Robert Plank: Would you say that, with all these businesses you helped, would you say that their big mistake is that they're not looking ... They're not comparing themselves to other businesses? Or would you say that there's an even bigger thing they're all missing out on?
Rodney Hughes: It's not so much about comparing yourself to other businesses. I think the biggest thing, some of the biggest things that people miss out on is that they ... I think sometimes people want this to be very difficult, okay? What I mean by that is there's a lot of things that are very, very simple but it doesn't mean that it's easy but it is simple, right? If, at the end of the day, if you understand that if you have a great product, service or solution, which I urge everyone to represent great products, services and solutions, but if you're not doing everything you possibly can every single day to get out and let people know about what it is that you're doing, you're not setting yourself up for success.
See, here's the thing. A lot of people, in business, a lot of people that I encounter in business, let's put it that way, a lot of people that I encounter in business, they fall in love with the business so much that they don't focus on the things that actually make the business work. What I mean by that is let's say you're a baker, right? First off, like I said, there's only one business in God's green earth. If you think you're in the baking business, then you're not going to perform nearly as high as another baker down the street that understands that they're in the money getting business.
This is, listen, this is 100% proven. Let's use McDonald's as an example. McDonald's is in the money getting business. If you look at just how they operate, it doesn't take long for you to understand that they understand they're in the money getting business. If I was in a room full of a million people and I asked a million people to raise your hand and say, "How many of you know who McDonald's is?" Almost everybody, if not everybody, would put their hands up. Would you agree?
Robert Plank: Yes, I would.
Rodney Hughes: If I was in that same room, right after I asked that question, and I say, "Hey. How many of you have had a better hamburger than McDonald's?" I'm almost sure that 100% of everybody would raise their hand and say, "Hey. I've had a better hamburger somewhere else." Would you agree with that?
Robert Plank: Yes, I would.
Rodney Hughes: Then I say, right after that I say, "Now let me ask you something. How many of those places that you had the better hamburger at can say 90 billion served?"
Robert Plank: None.
Rodney Hughes: Nobody's hands would go up.
Robert Plank: Interesting. What you're saying is you're seeing a lot of people who, they fall in love with the business or they ... You used the baker example. You could have a baker who they love baking but they ignore the business side of it. Or they don't focus on making it a machine or a system that just works really smoothly, keeps bringing people in and keeps making money. That's a huge problem you're saying.
Rodney Hughes: Exactly, exactly. There are too many people that have really, really great products and they invest a considerable amount of time into making sure the product, the service or solution is great. I'm not against that. I'm totally for that. I want you to have ... Represent great stuff because it really does help. I want you to focus on understanding business, you understand? You're good at what you do which is either if you're a chiropractor, you're good at doing chiropractic stuff, right? If you're an accountant, maybe you're great at crunching numbers and that's great.
I want you to be great at that but don't neglect being the business. The business is what's going to differentiate you. The business is what's going to ultimately lead to your great success. Doesn't it suck to have a great product, service or solution, you look down the street and you're getting your head beat in by somebody who has a far less superior product, service or solution in the exact same market that you're in?
Robert Plank: I mean that's a blow to the ego there.
Rodney Hughes: You see what I'm saying?
Robert Plank: Yeah.
Rodney Hughes: Guess what? If the person down the street understands hey, I'm in the money getting business. Then they're probably going to have way better sales results than you have, if you think that you're in whatever other business you think you're in.
Robert Plank: Cool so it sounds like that people, if they want, they can have the best of everything, right? They can have a good business that everyone knows about and they can be good at whatever skill it is that they're in.
Rodney Hughes: Absolutely, absolutely. I totally believe that you can be great at both things. I just feel that it's just a matter of focus and intention, you know what I mean?
Robert Plank: Oh yeah.
Rodney Hughes: If you neglect ... See, that's the thing. A lot of people neglect the business side of things. They neglect the marketing, they don't want to do that. They're just like, "Man I just want to bake." In that baker scenario, they're just like, "Man I just like cooking, period." If that's the case, then maybe that should just be ... If you're not willing to do the things to make the business grow big enough to where it would be happy for you, everybody doesn't want to be a millionaire, billionaire, whatever, right? If you're not willing to learn what it takes to get to the level of success that you desire from a business standpoint, then maybe that should just be a hobby and you should just get a job.
Robert Plank: I mean kind of harsh advice but I mean I think that a lot of people need to hear that.
Rodney Hughes: Yeah. I mean, at the end of the day, I'm not trying to be harsh. I'm just trying to call it how I see it.
Robert Plank: Be real, yeah.
Rodney Hughes: If you're not willing ... That's just like if you want to lose weight, you're not willing to work out and change up how you eat, well then you can't out work a bad diet. I mean I don't know what else to say to you. You can buy as many gym memberships as you want.
Robert Plank: I mean I agree with you there. I think that this is really important. I think that this is something that every business owner needs to hear, especially if they're maybe making things a little too hard on themselves. It doesn't have to be that way. Can you tell us about your website, your coaching, your book and all that cool stuff?
Rodney Hughes: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. If you ... My website is MarketingSS.com. I have a book called Selling Domination: Your Blueprint for Selling More and Generating an Extraordinary Income. It's a fantastic book. It's a short read. I wrote this book because I wrote the book that I wish I would have been able to have when I first got started in business. I want it to be a quick read that is really packed with value. Anybody that's in business, doesn't matter whether you're entrepreneur, business owner, sales professional, no matter what, this is a great book for somebody to have. Even if you're not even in business, because selling is such an integral part of success, period.
I don't care what field that you decide to go into, this would be a great book to have. If you wanted to pick up a copy of that, you can get it at www.sellingdominationbook.com. If you want more free just information from me directly, you like the way that I look at business and like to learn more, if you go to my regular website, marketingss and that's Sam Sam. It's short for Marketing Synergy Solutions. If you go to marketingss.com, you go to my video blog session section, you'll see I have tons of content that you can have access to. There you go.
Robert Plank: Awesome so lots of cool stuff, SellingDominationBook.com and MarketingSS.com. Rodney, thanks for being on the show and thanks for sharing what you had to share with us. I appreciate everything you have to say.
Rodney Hughes: Thanks for having me on the show. I hope that I was able to give some great value and I look forward to connecting with you in the future.
Robert Plank: Looking forward to that too, thanks a bunch.
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135: Overcome Illness and Adversity At Any Age with Marc Hoberman
Marc Hoberman from GradeSuccess.com, author of the book Search and Seizure: Overcoming Illness and Adversity, tells us how to reconcile both our positive and negative life experiences. He didn't let his eppilepsy diagnosis define him, and instead used this experience to keep him grounded. Marc shares his breakthroughs he experienced with his struggle, as well as how he makes money online with SAT prep and online tutoring.
Marc Hoberman: Doing very well, thank you. I appreciate it.
Robert Plank: Cool. No problem. I'm glad that you're here, so could you tell us a little bit about what it is that you do, and what makes you unique and special?
Marc Hoberman: I've been a teacher for 33 years, and I've had a tutoring business for about 25. I do a lot of tutoring in person and online. I have tutors who work for me. We do a lot of educational consulting for parents as well, for kids who are stressed out over school, and things of that nature. I've been in the camp training industry for many years, so I deal with a lot of children different ages, teens also. Because of an illness I had as a child. As a teen at the age of about 17, I was diagnosed with epilepsy at the age of 17 after having a seizure, grand mal seizure unfortunately, behind the wheel of a car, I wrote my book, "Search and Seizure, Overcoming Illness and Adversity".
Robert Plank: It sounds like because you've gone through it, you have these messages to help other people, too.
Marc Hoberman: That's exactly right. I started the book a while ago and stopped it. Then, about three years ago, my son came down with irritable bowel syndrome, IBS. That and a couple of skin issues, and he started getting a little depressed. I was very methodical about looking into it and fixing it, and finding him the right people. My wife said, "How come you're handling this so well? I'm a wreck." And I said, "You know, I think it's because I went through it, and I realized as a teacher, I could certainly help other people." A lot of times the emotionality of the illness is worse than the physicality of the illness.
Robert Plank: Interesting. As far as these illnesses and these things that hit us, is there a catchall or a one-size-fits-all, or a thing that we should all do no matter what hits us, or is it more of a case by case basis?
Marc Hoberman: It's a little of both. My big mantra in the book is I didn't let my illness define me. I defined it. I else didn't become who I am in spite of my illness, I am who I am because of my illness. You really want to embrace illness, stress, anything that you have, and deal with it that way instead of fighting it in other ways.
Robert Plank: As far as like what happened to you and what happened to your son, what happens to the people that you help out, do you look at it in terms of whatever gets in the way, is this something to be minimized, or do we roll with the punches? What happened with you from when you first came across this epilepsy thing into what happened now. what kind of breakthroughs and obstacles did you go through for that?
Marc Hoberman: Minimizing it, absolutely not. My hope is that in dealing with it a certain way, it minimizes itself on its own. Certainly not to minimize it, for the person to minimize it. To be honest, I'm 54 years old and until I wrote the book, there weren't 10 people in the world who knew I had epilepsy. I had family members who called in were shocked that I had this. There's a stigma attached to it, I was embarrassed, I did lose some friends, not a lot luckily, but there was so much more involved with it than just the illness.
I guess the turnaround was when I did open up about it, and I think that that's what you need to do, I think again - I'm an English teacher, so it comes with Julius Caesar. "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer." Your illness, your issues that you have, that might be the enemy, but you have to keep that close. You have to embrace it and you have to deal with it. It can't be minimized, you have to deal with it head-on. You have to grow into who you are and realize that any stressful situation that you have, that's part of who you are.
Robert Plank: It's part of the adversity you're going through, I guess.
Marc Hoberman: Correct.
Robert Plank: You came down with epilepsy. What have you been doing about make it work for you, I guess, this thing that's part of your life?
Marc Hoberman: I will tell you that from diagnosis of 17 to 19, that was the awful time. I did not have good medical care in Florida. My parents handled things well medically as far as getting me help and moving back to New York where we originated. Found a great doctor, Eli Goldensohn, who was an expert at Columbia-Presbyterian Hospital. Those two years were very rough Robert, because I was not controlled in the least.
First of all, I had a brand new 1977 Ford Mustang, which is on the cover of the book Search and Seizure, and everyone thinks, "Oh, search and seizure." They thought it could be about a drug bust because of the car, but the car is the car that I had the actual seizure in. To have a car for two or three months that was that beautiful, playing all the great music of the 70s, and being told I couldn't drive for six months was devastating for a teenager at that time. That was very rough.
There's petit mal seizures, which a lot of times people don't diagnose in time, because they could just be like dazing. Then there's grand mal seizures, and unfortunately, I had grand mal seizures always. A good thing quite honestly, was that I had petit mal seizures always preceding the grand mal, so my parents knew what a grand mal was going to happen because they could see me dazed and get very incoherent. I couldn't answer questions properly at all. I knew that being trapped in your own body, I knew that it was about to come on and I couldn't explain it or say anything.
Oddly enough, you see TV shows and you remember certain things. The only reason I started to watch Johnny Carson is that one of the medications I was on back in '78, dilantin, was too toxic for me. After about 9:00 at night, after I took it, I became so dizzy I couldn't walk. I wouldn't go to sleep until after my parents went to sleep because I couldn't walk into the bedroom. I didn't want to tell them, so I had to crawl back into bed for a good two months until we realized that it was too toxic for me. I wouldn't even be honest about what was going on because of what my parents were going through.
Robert Plank: That's pretty rough. Then what happened? Are you still unable to drive, or how did your life continue from that point?
Marc Hoberman: I was able to drive after six months. After that I was kind of controlled. When you have the seizure, at least for me, I start to remember two or three days later things that happened either during the seizure or shortly thereafter. This is in the book also. Although there is some humor in the book, obviously it was a very difficult situation. There was one time my father said, "You had a seizure in the doctor's office yesterday." I said, No I didn't." He said, "Yeah, you did," and he took out his wallet and my teeth marks were in it because when I went through the grand mal I was biting down, he put the wallet in my mouth, which is not something you do anymore. This is way back when.
Luckily, we moved to New York and I'm telling you, I walked into the doctor's office and talked into a tape recorder for 40 minutes, asked me at least 60 questions that I'd never heard before, gave me a new pill which back then was called valproic acid, which then changed the name to Depakine and Depakote. He gave me that pill and I never had a seizure after that for 28 years.
Robert Plank: Amazing.
Marc Hoberman: I would say maybe 10 or 15 years into it I was teaching in the Bronx, and he said, "Listen, you have no kids yet, we're going to experiment with taking you off, you may have grown out of it. If you can go about 18 months without a seizure, I think you're all good." Sixteen months later I had my worst seizure ever in the hallway of school, walking to class. It was in the Bronx, it was a tough neighborhood, they shut the school down because I fell, I chipped my tooth, I was bleeding. They didn't know if I was stabbed or shot or what happened. That was really bad, and I said, "You know what, if medication is going to fix it, I'm going to have to stick on the medication."
I have children I want to have, and things I want to do, and cars I want to drive, so I stayed on that medication up until actually a week ago. We just switched my meds, I had not an episode, but I had was called the perfect storm. I had an infection and I was on prednisone and I was on cough medicine, and I started to get incoherent. I really knew I was incoherent, which is unlike an epileptic petit mal seizure.
According to the doctors, they did an EEG, and they said there was no seizure activity so, they really think it's just that because I'm seizure-prone, it hampered my immune system a little bit, and manifested itself as almost like a haze, sort of like a petit mal, but they're not willing to call it a petit mal seizure. I guess since I started that other pill 28 years ago, they came out with a new pill. This is called Keppra. You don't have to test your blood levels. It's supposed to be a really good pill.
I must say, even as an educator and adult, I had to make a medical decision versus an emotional decision, because being seizure-free for 28 years is really quite wonderful and to know that I'm going to switch medications while I'm standing in front of a classroom. It's a humbling experience as I say in the book. Even though I was controlled, I speak in front of 300 people at camp conferences and reading conferences, at PTA meetings. It's in the back of my mind, what would happen if? That's something that's always there as well.
Robert Plank: In hearing about your story and your son's story and all these different things like that, would you say that - we all to one extent or another, we have that moment in life I guess, where something unexpected and permanent happens. Maybe for some of us it's not as drastic as having these lifelong seizures, but would you say we've all come across this point where there's something that came out of left field and something that will never go away? Something that we'll always have to manage and deal with. Would you say that everyone comes across that?
Marc Hoberman: Of course. Let's talk about parents getting divorced, the death of a loved one. An illness. Kids in school being bullied. Falling in love. All these things. There's no one who could possibly be untouched by these things.
Robert Plank: I guess that you brought up there, there's good and bad stuff, it's not just all unexpected, deaths, accidents, there are good and bad unexpected things coming across. Did you go through with both your situation with your parents, and then with your own son with his issues. Did you go through that point where you got the news, you know something's wrong, but you're uncertain about to do next? Have you gone through that kind of phase?
Marc Hoberman: Yes. Excellent question because luckily I've gotten many 5-star reviews and there's a company that gave me a 5-star review and he said that something my mother told me, this was two hours after I had the seizure in the car and I was back to the condo in Florida. She came in the room, very emotional woman, this is someone who was as I say in the book, cried at game shows. She sat down and said, "Look, this is the deal. You are a good-looking boy, you are funny, people like you, you're nice, you're kind, you're intelligent. This is something that's going to have to keep you grounded. This is something that's going to make you stronger and better, and we're going to deal with it together."
The reviewer I remember, wrote that this is - my mother's advice was advice that every parent should give every child at any moment of adversity. From that moment and discussion, that's how I moved forward.
Robert Plank: That's interesting. I like that, how this thing that might have been random, or it would be easy to take the victim way out, you assigned meaning to it. It's a thing that keeps you grounded.
Marc Hoberman: Make no mistake, there was a time period though, of victimization that I probably put on myself. More because of the stigma. Kids can be mean, and kids want intensely, to me a lot of people didn't know it, but I didn't want to tell my teachers. I went to school, I played in the school band, the clarinet and saxophone. The band director called me in and said, "Listen, your parents called. What should I do if you have a seizure?" First of all, I didn't know the answer to the question. Second of all, I was embarrassed that he knew, and I didn't tell very many people.
That part of it is that I didn't want it to define me, and I'm not going to lie. As a teenager part of it was the stigma that was attached. It seems a weakness, and I've learned through the years, especially as an educator for so long, that it's not me weakness, it's my strength.
Robert Plank: I like that. What's even more interesting about your case is that you grew up to become a teacher, so the same thing that you were worried about as a kid with the seizures, you're worried about again as an adult when you switching your medication or trying to get off your medication. There was the thing, ridicule possibilities there.
Marc Hoberman: Absolutely, and I don't care about it as much, I'd be lying if I said I didn't care at all, but that's not what I'm about any more. It was more about my own decisions. I said it was a medical and emotional decision as an educator, it should be a no-brainer. It should be, I'm doing the medical correct thing, but you have so many years, and such a history of freedom, you wouldn't know it, and I wouldn't know it if there was no side effects to the medication I was taking. There are side effects, I just never had them, thank God.
I had to make that decision, but there are so many kids that I teach who have diabetes, and some who do have epilepsy. Be it obesity, or any of these things, and the teen stress, and the teen suicides and so much going on. I really thought that this book would help a lot of the people, even the people that I tutor. I become very close with the families and I try to help with these issues.
Speaking from experience, even though it was a bad experience, I'd have to say at the end right now, it was a good experience. If I can help other people, that's a wonderful thing.
Robert Plank: Are you noticing with the people that you're helping, whether they have diabetes, or seizures, or obesity like you said, no matter what condition they have are the psychological parts - are there similarities, or are there some kind of steps that anyone could take, no matter what condition they see themselves in?
Marc Hoberman: I would say there's absolutely something they can do no matter what condition they see themselves in. I have what I think is a very powerful saying in the prologue of the book that after the seizure, it's like your own personal earthquake, but you have no memory of the seizure. It's a blessing and a curse. It a blessing because you don't remember, but it's a curse that you don't because I want to remember. I want to be able to embrace it and I want to be able to research it.
I don't know how old you are, I know you're a lot younger than I am, so I might a say a word that'll make you laugh, but microfiche. That' how I first had to research it because I was diagnosed 37 years ago. Now, you pop in the internet and forget about it. Side effects, and what can you do, I'm part of 15 groups, epilepsy groups, one of them is in Hungary, all over the place. There are so many lesson to be learned and if you can't learn from everything to me.
I gain strength from other epileptics. I am shocked and embarrassed that I only know now how many people are not controlled. I'm talking about babies, I'm conversing with people on the internet who it's beyond tragic. There's a light at the end of the tunnel. They're bringing families together, there's learning about your illness and saying, "Is it going to define me, or am I going to grow and be who I'm going to be because I have this."
Robert Plank: Would you say that it is helpful if someone researches and knows as much as possible about what they have?
Marc Hoberman: I would say 98% yes. Here's the only 2% no. When I first met my doctor in Columbia-Presbyterian, I said, "What are the side effects of this medicine?" He said, "Call me when you think you have something, because if I tell you ten side effects, you're going to feel nine." While it's true that too much information could be a little harmful, absolutely, positively research everything. You have to seek out the experts, you have to ask questions, but you have to educate yourself. I went to the library when I first was diagnosed and then read many books on it. Not so much the pharmacology, but just the illness itself.
The different tests, I took five tests when I was in the hospital. One was a CAT scan with contrast. No test showed that I had any seizure activity except for the EEG. The least invasive test, the test that hurt the least, that's the only thing that showed it. You're coming more knowledgeable about it, and about other people who have it now. That's your strength.
Robert Plank: I hadn't even thought about that, like there's two sides of the knowledge coin there, is that there's the medical part and all the facts, and there's also you mentioned, a little bit there, the stories and all about other people who you know you're not alone in this condition. That was important.
Marc Hoberman: I had two close friends in Florida, a close friend or two that I had left behind in New York, and they were very, very, very helpful. You don't need 50. You need whatever your support network is. Family, friends, doctor, whoever. You need that set number and you need to lean on that and embrace that constantly.
Robert Plank: It's not just a one-shot deal, you have to keep going back to that.
Marc Hoberman: Absolutely. This is your support staff, and your support system. It's as important as you being your own support. A lot of people are not their own support system, and that's where I think that I differ from some. My sense of humor comes across in the book a bit, and I try to keep that and that also helped me in my, I don't want to call it recovery, but in my management of my illness.
Robert Plank: Let's talk a little about that. Let's talk about you and your book and the things you do, because we mentioned the book a few times, and I understand that you also do online tutoring and cool stuff like that. Is that right?
Marc Hoberman: Right. It's funny. I only started to do the online tutoring because it was one year, four years ago where it snowed every Tuesday, and I lost all my Tuesday clients, and I was kind of booked and really had no place else to put them, so they started to get pretty upset. I found this online platform, and it's outstanding, because it's a live whiteboard and I write on it and they see it in real time. They write an essay, I see it in real time. My tutors being chemistry and math, they have pads that they use. It goes right online and they love that. I can seem them, they can see me. I
f you walked in the room with your eyes closed, you would think they were in the room with you. It really helps me also in my educational consulting because when I talk to parents about how to organize their children, and do successful studying skills, I can show them together as a family right online. It really has helped a lot. We do a lot of college advisement also. It connects me to people, it's not just about the tutoring, it's about the connecting to people and helping them.
Some people are great study skills, some have no organization skills and time management which many of the colleges say, that one of the major problems of the freshmen certainly, that come in, would be the time management. We help with all that, and I said I have tutors who work for me, so the internet has been a Godsend for many reasons.
Robert Plank: As far as the tutoring goes, is that just something where you get those students from local from you, or are you using the internet to get new people?
Marc Hoberman: It was local, and it branched out, because now people are be able to tell their cousins, who are in, could be Alaska. This guy's good with ACT prep or SAT prep, or he helped Johnny with this, or your cousin had very bad test anxiety and he's helped with that. I also have an expert I work with with test anxiety. I'm able to reach out more, which is the reason I'm doing the radios show, because I want to reach out to people that way too.
It started by accident locally, but I have local kids who were refusing to come back. They live a mile away and they said this is the best. It's technology, I watch you, I turn you off, I go back to bed. It works locally, but I really want to widen the reach, especially for educational consulting. I think that there's a lot frustration and stress on the parents.
I think some parents stress their kids, of course unintentionally, and I've been doing this a long time, and teaching a long time, so I've been a dean of students, the behavioral issues also for six years, so I feel it gives me an opportunity to help them along with their kids' growth academically.
Robert Plank: That's a really important thing it sounds like. Is there a place where people can find out about you and your tutoring online, is there a website for that?
Marc Hoberman: Yes. The website for that is www.gradesuccess.com. The author site for the book is marchoberman.com.
Robert Plank: Okay. MarcHoberman.com and it looks like the search and seizure book is right there. Is the book on Amazon as well?
Marc Hoberman: The book is on Amazon, it's on Kindle, it's going to be available on the iBooks soon. If people go online I could also send them an ebook form, so it's available in many different forms. Certainly Amazon is great, Kindle is instantaneous obviously.
Robert Plank: Yes. Search and Seizure looks a great bookmark, and what I've been hearing over and over from our talk today, the common thread that I keep hearing is that you found something that worked for you, whether that's the tutoring, or managing this illness that you did not expect. It's like in all these situations you find something that works good for you, and then you did a little bit of playing around, or experimenting, or research and it grew on its own, whether it was the speaking about the seizures, or it was about the tutoring, I think there's something really cool to that. To not have any of these big huge plans, but just get a handle on yourself, try some new things, and then grows on its own, especially with the way that this online tutoring has picked up for you.
Marc Hoberman: It's a lifetime commitment. I never stop learning, as i said I've been teaching 33 years. I'm coming out with a book in a couple of months teaching strategies and it teach other teachers. I still go into classrooms where I know teachers have great reputations and I sit and watch them also. You cannot stop learning. You have to always be open to learning and getting more information. Knowledge is power. Period.
Robert Plank: I agree about a billion percent. Thanks for coming on the show Marc, and sharing what you have to share with us. MarcHoberman.com and Search and Seizure is the book. Thanks again.
Marc Hoberman: My pleasure. Thanks.
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134: Get Out of the Dumpster and Banish Your Limitations with Dr. Reggie Padin
Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a "dumpster moment" that prevented you from getting to the next level? Dr. Reggie Padin has. He's the author of, "Get Out Of The Dumpster: A True Story on Overcoming Limitations" and tell us how he went from being a high school dropout living in a dumpster to someone who's found his purpose through soul searching and has become a dean professor, instructor, and coach. He tells us how to the make the right choices and find your next steps.
Reggie Padin: Thank you for having me, Robert, it's a pleasure.
Robert Plank: Cool. I'm glad that we have this cool story in front of us that I can't wait to unpack. The thing about this show and the people that I have on, lately I feel like I've had a lot of guests on and what's the most interesting part for me with anyone's story are the places they've failed, the places they've struggled. It seems like lately with my guests I've said where was your low point? Where did you struggle? I've been hearing a lot of, "I've never struggled. It's always come easy for me."
Reggie Padin: What?
Robert Plank: I'm thinking, "What are you talking about?"
Reggie Padin: Wow.
Robert Plank: I love the stories where people get stuck. Can you tell us a little bit about your story personally?
Reggie Padin: I'm going to go in a completely opposite direction because I've struggled a lot. The title of the book, Get Out of the Dumpster is an actual real life story. I was in a dumpster because of the choices I've made as a young man. Primarily the biggest mistake I made as a young person was dropping out of high school. I dropped out of high school, married very young, started having kids right away. It's a recipe for financial disaster when you don't have an education. It so happens that during that time we were experiencing one of the worst recessions ever. It was tough. I had to dig deep and dig myself out of that situation, out of that dumpster which was a big struggle. I'm glad to hear that people that have not faced struggled in their lives. I have. The good thing in what I've learned personally is it doesn't matter the dumpster you're in. I was literally in a dumpster. What I found out is we all face dumpster moments. It doesn't matter the dumpster you're in, you can dig yourself out. It doesn't matter the struggle, you can do it, you can get out.
Robert Plank: Cool, that's a pretty cool message. Tell us about a little bit what happened. You said that you dropped out of high school, you had the kid. What was the situation there?
Reggie Padin: It was a tough situation. Again, I made the mistake of dropping out. The only jobs that I could find without a high school diploma, without an education, was really as a gopher, as a janitor, doing odd things here and there. I ended up working for a company that I didn't know at the time was experiencing financial difficulties, in fact they were going bankrupt. When a company's going bankrupt they have to make cuts. One of the things they cut was the waste management company. I got a call in from my boss one day and he called me to his office and he said, "I need you to do something." In fact he didn't say I need a favor he said, "I need you to do this. Go get one of the company trucks and back it up to every single dumpster around the company and I need you to go in there and haul all that garbage by hand, place it in the back of that truck and drive it to the landfill. That became my job. Can you imagine? I don't know if you've ever walked by a dumpster in the middle of the summer, but it's not a pleasant situation.
Robert Plank: Sounds gross, yeah.
Reggie Padin: It was pretty bad. I was chest deep inside a dumpster. I had to drive it to a landfill which was not a very pleasant thing either, and get in the back of that box truck and dump it in there and leave it in the landfill. Day in and day out for an entire summer I had to do that. I had a wake up call. It was an aha moment for me, it was a moment of questioning is this what I want to do for the rest of my life? I couldn't bear the thought of providing that type of life for my children when I knew I could give them more. There's where I began to journey out of that original dumpster. I created a plan for myself, a long term plan, and found a purpose for life on what I wanted to do, and executed that plan. I've been working at that plan for over 20 years.
It's brought me to this point where I no longer have to do that kind of work. I work in a very good environment and I have a very good situation going on. Probably more importantly than all of that, now I have the opportunity to help other people come out of their dumpster moments. In my book I identified dumpster moments as anything that limits you from getting to the next level. We all have those limitations, they are self-imposed sometimes. Most of the times they're self-imposed, and that we need to overcome. Today I get to help a lot of people identify what those limitations are and devise a plan of action that will get them out of that situation.
Robert Plank: In that kind of situation what was the plan? How did you get yourself out of that?
Reggie Padin: You do a lot of soul searching. Whenever you hit bottom you do a lot of soul searching. I started looking for what was the teaching moment here for me? One of the things that I began asking myself in that situation was what is my purpose? For me, I found out pretty quickly that I was going to use that story and my experiences to help other people. My purpose became helping other people come out of their dumpsters. For me it meant I wanted to be a professor, I wanted to be an instructor, I wanted to be a coach. That meant I had to go back and begin the journey of going to school. I had to go back and get my GED and then go to college. I was the first person in my family to graduate from college. It involved getting 2 master's degrees, it involved getting a doctorate degree. It was a very methodical plan to get from point A to Z.
That means, and this is where a lot of people make the mistake ... A lot of people, especially in today's age of instant gratification and what you see on the internet and television, seems like those are overnight success stories. When you look deep down, they're not overnight success stories. They've worked hard at it for many, many years. I devised a plan for myself that involved almost 18 years of formal education. Probably more importantly, with every step that I took my life got better, my income got better, the opportunities got better, I started meeting the right people and the right situation and going in the right direction, and my income grew.
Today I tell people, look, you look at my life and yes I drive the car of my dreams, I live in South with a multi-million dollar view, I have a pretty comfortable live, but you too can enjoy that kind of life if you want it, if that's what you want. What you have to do is make sure that you find your purpose, create a plan of action, execute that plan over and over and over again. There's other things of course that I mention in the book that help people achieve what it is that they want to achieve in their lives.
Robert Plank: I know that it might be kind of simplifying it here but what's the difference between now and then? When you say the difference is like before you didn't have a real plan and a goal, you were drifting through and being boxed into situations. What would you say is the biggest difference between now and your failure?
Reggie Padin: For me, it's mindset. That's what I tell people, that's the first thing in fact. It's chapter 2 of the book. You have to develop a different mindset. When I look at my life now and I look at that young guy in that dumpster. By the way, I'm not only by any stretch of the imagination. When I look at that guy back then, he had a different mindset, he had a limiting mindset, he had a self-defeating mindset, he had a doubtful mindset. He had a victim mentality, he made excuses, he looked at the problem and not for the solutions. Today the biggest difference is not that I don't experience those things, I still experience doubt and fear and insecurities and real life problems, stuff that I overcome. My mindset is different. Once you have that different, that winning mindset, that mindset that limitations to, can what I can ... Until you develop that you're not going to win.
With that mindset comes a different work ethic, it comes a mindset of execution, of excellence, of keeping momentum, of surrounding yourself with the right people, with the right situations, with the right crowd, with the right resources, but it all starts right there in your mind. If you can overcome that, that's what I tell people if you can overcome whatever limitations you have in your head. I tell people this, it's an illusion. Your mind can't tell the difference between sometimes between reality and what's not real, that's where you take action and say, "This is not going to be a limitation for me."
Robert Plank: How does someone start that process? How does someone get the ball rolling towards fixing all those little things, the limited believe, the self-defeating, self the victim, what's the low hanging fruit there?
Reggie Padin: The biggest thing that people can start working on is finding out what their purpose is. Purpose is going to give you the fuel that you need to make every other kind of change in your life. Until you find your purpose in life you're not going to have enough passion to work on any of those things, to change any of those. For me, of course the purpose, my motivation became my purpose is to be out of here and to help other people, of course help my family, help my children, help myself get out of this situation. That gave me the fuel, it was the catalyst to move me in the right direction. The other thing that you find is once you have your purpose I tell people there's nothing new under the sun. You have experiences out there. You have examples out there of people who have been able to accomplish whatever it is that you want to accomplish.
In my case as an educator, as a coach, whatever you want to call me, motivational speaker, whatever you want to call me. There are already examples of that, of very successful people who have done that in the past. My job at that point becomes what is it that I can learn from these people that have already walked the path. I'll try not to make the same mistakes so I can learn the skills that they've learned, so I can to the resources that they've gone to. Back when I started the internet was non-existent. In fact, it wasn't even in its infancy. Today we have so many resources at our disposal that all you have to do is Google something and you'll find enough information there, enough tools, resources there to get you started going in the right direction.
You talk about a low hanging fruit ... You find out what it is that you want to do in life and then find great examples and mimic and follow those examples until you create your own style, your own way of doing things. That to me as been revolutionary, that I didn't have to reinvent the wheel, the wheel was already out there. All I have to do is take those examples and apply them in my life.
Robert Plank: That makes a lot of sense. On one side of it it's like why put yourself through all the same problems that everyone who came before you had.
Reggie Padin: Exactly.
Robert Plank: Then you have to live your own life. There's that matter where you find the case studies, you find the role models.
Reggie Padin: Of course. I tell people, look, there are virtual mentors, partners, and coaches out there. When I first started I had no contacts. I had no partners, no mentors, nobody to really point me in the right direction. I had to do the research. Once I found the examples that I wanted to follow I read everything they put out. I went to their conferences, I went to their conferences, I would go to their workshops, listen to their tapes. This is back in the days where there were actually cassette tapes and VHS tapes, and you would watch them. Today it's even better. They can listen to podcasts. I tell this to people that make the excuse, "I don't have an education, or I don't have money for an education." You can actually go to school, you can go to Stanford right now for free. You won't get the diploma necessarily, but you'll get the knowledge, you'll get that. You can just go and take classes at Stanford or MIT or Harvard, or any of these schools, for free. There's no excuse. There's no excuse for people to really better themselves and to find the tools and the knowledge and the skills necessary to succeed.
Robert Plank: I agree with that about a million percent. I know you have your experiences and you have your book. You mentioned a little bit that you have a little bit of speaking ... Can you tell me about the rest of your business and how your message and your story and your training and you book all kind of relates to that?
Reggie Padin: Right now what I've given myself to is really to teach people, to coach people. I am the dean of a corporate university for a multi-billion dollar company. If you would want to call it my day job, that's what I do. Also, I work as an adjunct professor at several universities where I'm teaching. Primarily freshmen coming in, business skills and communication skills. What I'm really, really passionate about is to be able to take that to the masses. That's the reason why I wrote the book and put it out there for people, that's why I do these kinds of interviews, for people ... Whether it's my book or somebody else's book. If there's something that I say that can help one person overcome their limitations, I've done my job.
A few years ago I started the process of starting an online school that will teach business and technology courses. I'm going through the licencing and certification right now for that school. It's going to be completely online. Very affordable compared to other types of programs out there. That's what I do. Almost 24/7 I'm constantly looking for ways to help people come out of their limiting situations. I have a personal goal. My goal is before I check out of this planet earth I would want to help at least a million people overcome at least one limitation in their lives. That is my goal, that is my purpose, that is my life's mission, that's what I've given myself to.
Robert Plank: Cool. I think that's a pretty good goal and a pretty good message there. As we're winding this down today, is there, I don't even know how to ask this, but a quick exercise or a quick activity, something somebody could do today even in 10-20 minutes to just get over the hump or get one little thing fixed as far as overcoming their limitations?
Reggie Padin: I would be lying in telling people there's a quick fix here. There really isn't. You've been watching the Olympics and probably your audience has been watching the Olympics. These are people who are winning medals and they prepare over 4 years, maybe sometimes for a 10 second race. It's a lot of hard work. The reason why they prepare for 4 years for a 10 second race is because they have found their purpose, they have found their passion. What I can tell people is I can give you some exercises that you can do to find your purpose. Once you find your purpose you'll find the resources. You'll find the fuel that you need in order to get it done.
I tell people, look, get a piece of paper, a notebook, a pen, go to a quiet place. We live in such a noisy world. We live in a world where other people tell us what we are supposed to be and what we're supposed to do. Our parents, and grandparents, and aunts, and uncles, and ministers, and teachers, and so many other people have told us what we need to do. What is it that we want to do? What is it that we feel called to do? That's the other thing. Look, I've a very spiritual person. I believe that every person on this earth has a purpose, has a plan. Find out what that plan is and for that, in order for you to do that you have to quiet yourself and just write all, anything that comes to mind, those things that bring you joy, those things that bring you happiness, those things that bring you fulfillment, those things that bring you satisfaction, those things that motivate you. Write down all those things.
What you're going to see if you spend enough time. That's more than 20 minutes. You'll probably have to spend 3 months doing this, maybe taking one day a week, one night a week and doing this by yourself with nobody else around you. What you're going to find out is after writing and writing you're going to see some patterns. After you create those patterns you're going to see. In my case, what the theme that kept coming back was teaching people, helping people, teaching people, helping people ... My journey has taken me in different directions. I started as a youth worker and then I worked in the inner city and then I was a minister, then I became a professor and a dean of a corporate university. What do all those things have in common? They all are about helping people overcome things in heir lives.
I have felt satisfaction in doing all those things even though one door closed and another opened. They were all aligned with the same purpose because I started moving in that direction. That is probably the one tidbit that I can give people. Find out what your purpose is, the rest will take care of itself.
Robert Plank: Interesting. I like that. I like especially, I'm totally okay with it might take a few weeks or a few months, but I like the idea of don't just. It's one thing to write things down and list stuff. I like that you said see what, as you're making this list see what the connections are and see what the patterns are.
Reggie Padin: Absolutely.
Robert Plank: What comes up over and over again.
Reggie Padin: They will come. If you're patient enough. Listen, what do you have to lose?
Robert Plank: Nothing.
Reggie Padin: If you're in a dumpster anyway, whether it's a real dumpster or an emotional dumpster or a career dumpster or a relationship dumpster, whatever the dumpster is, what do you have to lose? You already, you've hit bottom. Find out, take some time with yourself, with your thoughts. You will be guided, trust me, you will be guided, you will find the connections. Steve Jobs talks about this when he gave that speech at Stanford before passing a few years ago. He says, "What you're going to see is you have to find what you love to do, and go through life. Just keep going in that direction of what you like to do. Then you will be able to connect the dots. You never are able to connect the dots looking forward, it's always looking backwards." My life took me here, here, everywhere. I've lived in so many states and I've done various things. Now connecting the dots looking backwards I've seen that yeah, it's all part of the same purpose, it's all part of the same plan.
Robert Plank: Interesting. That's a pretty good insight there. Along those lines, along the lines of people getting out of the dumpster and staying out of the dumpster could you tell everyone where to find out more about you and get your book and all that good stuff?
Reggie Padin: They can visit my website, reggiepadin.com. They can see more about what we do, or they can go to Amazon to get my book Get Out of the Dumpster. They're going to have the information there. Basically they'll see my page. The book is available right now on Kindle and on paperback. I encourage everybody, every listener to get it. I know that there's something in there for everybody.
Robert Plank: Listening to you I agree too. Thanks for coming on the show, Dr. Reggie. Everyone should go there and get a copy of the book or even get 100 copies. Lots of good stuff, lots of cool breakthroughs. Thanks for the awesome show, Doctor.
Reggie Padin: Thanks for having me, it's been a pleasure.
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133: Social Media Marketing Power, Customer Service and Rebranding with Kyra Reed
Kyra Reed from Made to Order Agency tells us about the power of social media including the story of how she was able to save the Roxy Theater in Los Angeles using internet marketing. Her social system consists of five points:
- Who are you? (brainding)
- Who are you talking to? (understand how your customers "feel")
- What are you saying? (content strategy)
- How are you selling?
- What is your growth & maintenance plan? (what platforms)
Kyra, welcome to the show. Tell us about yourself and what makes you different and special.
Kyra Reed: I've been in the industry 12 years now. I was very fortunate to have my first client in my agency in LA. The Roxy Theater on the Sunset Strip in Los Angeles in West Hollywood ... Legendary club, family owned ... I was able to at the very beginning of social media, go in and really help them save, not only the business, but the entire Sunset Strip. It was featured in "The New York Times," "TechCrunch," "Entrepreneur Magazine" and on and on. Lots of national publications ...
Became one of the biggest case studies around music and social media to date ... That gave me a tremendous amount of insight. I had a lot of freedom to really play and explore and check out this new emerging technology. Really see what works, what doesn't because I've been there since the very beginning.
That led me and my business partner to develop a process that we call "The Social System," where we help companies, actually, in our 5-point system accomplish everything that they need in their social strategy. No one has anything like it. Whether you're a solo-preneur or a Fortune 500 company, it scales. It's usable. It's simple, and it encompasses everything that you need. That's what makes me different.
Robert Plank: Cool. What are the 5 points of that system, or is that a secret?
Kyra Reed: No. We're happy to talk about it. It is something that we developed because we wanted to create some standards in this industry. Everybody seems to be an expert or a guru. The industry itself, can't decide on what are the specific processes that we should all agree with.
What we came up with is very simple 5 steps. They boil down to this. Number 1, first thing you have to know is who are you? You got to look at your branding and your messaging. That has to come first. Second, who are you talking to? How do you look at your customers and really understand them from a social perspective, which means, how are they feeling when they come through that door? What is their emotional state? What is your promise to them and the needs that they have? This is a very different way of looking at your customers.
Next is, what are you saying? That's your content strategy. We can't put your content strategy together until we know who you are and what you're saying. Thing is, most people want to come in, and they want to get right into that content strategy or right into growth strategy. It's impossible to do that effectively and authentically, which you must do when you're working in social media, unless we know who are you and who are you talking to.
Who are you? Who are you talking to? What are you saying? How are you selling? Selling on social media is absolutely possible. You can do it very successfully, but again, you've got to know who are you, who are you talking to, and what are you saying, before you can get into the sell.
The last piece of it is, actually, growth and maintenance. That's where your policies come in. Which platform should you be on? How are you going to grow your community? All of those things people want to start with, but they're not important. They're not something you can really focus on, until you know, who are you, who are you talking to, what are you saying, how are you selling.
Robert Plank: I like how that's all broken down. Like you said, it has everything you need, but it's simple and you can just easily look at it and see. See if someone's starting over with the social media or looking at what's working and what's not working. You mentioned a couple of minutes ago that the way you got your start was by fixing and helping out The Roxy Theater's marketing effort. How long ago was this? Was this marketing, in general, or were you helping with their social side of things?
Kyra Reed: Yeah. It was social-specific. I started working with them 10 years ago in November. At that time, the Sunset Strip was really pretty much the has been. I worked in the music industry and my friends would say, "Don't think I'm going to to go The Roxy, just because you're working with them. That place sucks."
It had gone from this club in the '60s and '70s and '80s ... It was just the be all, end all. They were launching all these great bands to nobody wanted to go. They were really close to closing their doors. It was when Tower Records shut down. The owner had this epiphany, "Oh my gosh, I'm next if I don't get my act together, but we don't have any money to do a re-branding and re-marketing."
I met him right at that time and I said, "Look, let's shake it up. Let's take down your website and put up a blog." Now, that sounds like no big deal, but we were the very first ever to do that. Now, every music venue has a blog as their website. We were the first. We got ridiculed for it, actually.
I got the owner on Twitter. I got him on Facebook. I think we were number 1,900 on Twitter. We'd completely revolutionized the way that the whole club process was done because we went from having what we called a "velvet rope mentality," where we kept everybody out.
We took those ropes down. We invited the whole world into the club. We made friends with everybody. We gave away tickets. We started the Tweet Crawl. The very first ever Tweet Crawl. We brought the entire community of the Sunset Strip together. The first time in 40, 50, 60 years that that entire street was working together as opposed to these siloed businesses. What we did is we took all of these principles on social media, authenticity, transparency, community and we looked at how can we integrate these into what we're doing every day?
As a result, not only The Roxy but Nic Adler, the owner of The Roxy became a real social media pioneer. For several years, he was on the speaking circuit. Everybody wanted to know, "What had The Roxy done? What had the Sunset Strip done to save itself." We did it with no budget. We did it all with social media, using community, using the ability to communicate with customers and really be on top of customer service.
Give people what they wanted ... Communicate with them. Use our great photos. Use the access we had with artists, and it changed everything.
Robert Plank: All this happened 10 years ago, and it sounds like you guys were the pioneers for a lot of this stuff. If none of this existed, how did you come across these ideas? Was it a matter of trying out these experiments, or was it seeing what the need was? How did you come up with all this?
Kyra Reed: Mm-hmm (affirmative)- It was a course of 5 years. We started 10 years ago, and we worked really hard at it for about 5 years. Then it kind of went on auto-pilot. The way that I came to these conclusions ... I was living in Portland. I was managing bands, and I was hired by a band manager who said, "I need you to figure out this blogging thing." It was a brand new word, brand new idea. They'd just broke in a band called "Clap Your Hands Say Yeah." It was the first band to ever break on a blog.
I started digging around and doing research. I saw this really interesting thing that music blogs were promoting their competition. They were reposting their competition's work, and everybody was happy to do it. Then I was fortunate enough to come across a documentary called "Revolution OS." "Revolution OS" talked about open source and how the idea of open source ideology, where we have this open sharing of information, that it's going to change everything.
It's going to change how people relate to each other. It's going to change how business is done. It's going to put consumers in the driver's seat. I saw this happening. Gosh, that was 2 years even before I met up with The Roxy. This is 12 years ago. Shortly after that, I picked up a book called "The Long Tail" by Chris Anderson. It all came together for me, exactly what was going to be happening and that it was going to be fueled by people's desires to connect and the fact that technology was going to make that happen. How that was going to change business ...
I applied those very abstract, vague ideas to company that I was fortunate ... Unlike my business partner, who was working at Live Nation and Ticketmaster at the time, she had to prove every single thing that she did based on a dollar. Which was really great because she was one of the first to actually be able to prove that social could make money ...
I had the freedom to play. I had the freedom to really experiment with community and what does that mean? How authentic and how transparent can you be? What do you need to keep to yourself? What do you need to share? What's being risky? What is really going to ... There are a lot of really interesting stories that I have from that time, and one of my favorites is when we had a concert at The Roxy.
The act was late, and so, people had to wait outside longer. They had problems with sound check, and it really wasn't The Roxy's fault. At the time, "The LAist" used to love to pick on The Roxy. Everybody loved to pick on The Roxy. It was like low-hanging fruit. It was an easy target. Of course they came back, and they wrote a horrible review and ripped the Roxy to shreds.
Based on this idea of authenticity, Nic went ahead, and he left this long comment explaining everything that happened. At the end of it, he said, "You know. We're here, and we are really trying. We know we have messed up with our public, and we are really trying. I want to hear from you guys because we're going to do everything we can to make this a better experience for you."
He put his phone number in the comment and said, "Call me and let me know if you have problems with The Roxy. We're going to fix it right away."
Robert Plank: Interesting.
Kyra Reed: That was the last negative review we ever had.
Robert Plank: That's cool, and I love little stories like that because it's one thing for you to say, "Here are the mechanics. Here are the steps" and stuff like that. I always like the little stories where you do something random and crazy, to not just get attention, make more money as well.
Kyra Reed: I'll tell you another really quick story to demonstrate because I think a lot of people do not understand the power of social. A lot of people just think, "Well, you know, I have to do this to promote my company. It's because it's where everybody is. It's just what I have to do." The power of social when you use it right ...
That's how we started with The Roxy. It was everybody's favorite whipping horse, right? Seven years later, "The Voice" ... The TV show "The Voice" ... Adam Levine starts reviewing a woman who did a Michelle Branch song. He says, "You know, Michelle Branch ... I played with her at The Roxy, and The Roxy sucks. They didn't give me a dressing room," and he looked right at the camera and said something really nasty about The Roxy.
They air on the East Coast ahead of the West Coast. Nic, the owner of The Roxy, his phone started blowing up about all these tweets about The Roxy. He got on, saw a real quick YouTube video about what was said and was shocked. He immediately got in touch with the Yahoo music editor, had them redo the marquee at The Roxy and tweeted, "Adam Levine? Come on? Really?"
That was it. Once it hit the West Coast feed, his response to the Yahoo music editor went out. It said, "Look. You were our house band for a long time. You know that it's not our fault. The lead band chooses who gets the dressing room, not us. We love you, man." It was with a photo of the marquee on The Roxy that said, "Adam Levine, your dressing room is ready." That was it.
"TMZ," "Hollywood Reporter," "Vanity Fair" ... Everybody picked that story up, and our community came to our rescue so seriously that it changed the face of The Roxy because our community loves and supports that venue so much now because of all the work that we did that we don't have to do much. Nobody could attack The Roxy. We went from being the favorite whipping boy in L.A. to the golden child of the music scene there.
Robert Plank: That's pretty cool, and the best part of that is that you guys were able to react within an hour or 2. You were able to react very quickly.
Kyra Reed: Mm-hmm (affirmative)- This is why you've got to get out there and build your audience because when you do, your audience is going to protect you. They're going to come and rally around you, and they're going to spread the word for you. Then when you can leverage and see what you can do, and you can keep an eye on who's tweeting about you, who's talking about you ... You can respond with levity. You cannot buy that kind of press and marketing. You just can't.
Robert Plank: I've noticed that some brands are really good about doing that. A few of the airlines and stuff like Taco Bell ... I noticed that all day long, they have, for sure, a team of some kind just responding every couple of minutes to whoever's tweeting them with whatever kind of problem. They're super responsive in that way.
Kyra Reed: Yes, and I'll tell you ... Southwest Airlines ... I just had a horrible experience with them, but man, they were on it. I've tweeted about it. They got to me immediately and made me feel like, "All right. Some things didn't work, but they cared. They care about their customers. They don't want people walking away feeling crappy about interacting with this brand." I have brands that won't do that, and it makes me want to leave them.
Robert Plank: Is this what you do? Is this primarily what you do? You go to these brands who may be could be marketing better on social, and you just whip them into shape, I guess?
Kyra Reed: I wish that more brands would let me do it, to be honest with you. Social is still something that is relegated to the back burner. It's an add-on. People don't understand the real value and power that it has, and they're scared of it because it requires making a transition from old-school marketing, which was one-way communication. "I decide, based on whatever focus group or arbitrary thing I want to say what my public is going to hear from me. I don't want to answer questions. I don't want to reveal too much, and I don't want to get involved."
That's really, truly the viewpoint of a lot of businesses. "I don't need social media. We're doing just fine without it." The reality is you could be doing a thousand times better because every brand gets checked out on Facebook. Every brand is getting reviewed by hundreds of people a day, whether they know it or not. How you interact with the public says so much to consumers these days.
People want to kind of pin it under PR. They want to pin it under marketing. They don't really understand that social is its own beast. It's its own dynamic, and it has the power to completely change a company. It has the power to affect sales and PR, marketing, customer service, product development, everything, even HR. There's a lot of untapped resource. The result is a lot of people entering the market that don't know what they're doing, so a lot of people say it doesn't work.
"Eh, social doesn't work. It doesn't work. It's a waste of time. It's waste of money. It's too noisy." It's noisy with a lot of people that don't understand how to use it. There's still a lot of untapped potential there for a lot of brands, and I do. I wish that more brands would hand over the keys to me and let me just turn them over.
Robert Plank: You start doing your thing and playing around, right?
Kyra Reed: Mm-hmm (affirmative)-
Robert Plank: Along those lines, what are your thoughts ... The thing I'm still trying to come to terms with, I guess with all this social media marketing stuff, is how do you reconcile the promotional part of it ... The tweeting the links versus everyone wants to be silly and go viral and be like the Old Spice guy. What are your thoughts in that whole area?
Kyra Reed: That's advertising. That's where you craft very a specific persona for a product release ... Oreo does that really well. Doritos does it really well. These brands ... They can get away with it because they're enormous brands, and their target market is Millennials. There's also a lot of inauthenticity that goes along with it. Smaller brands ... They actually really need to ... Go back to that 5-point system.
Who are you? Who are you authentically? You've got to show up as who you really are. They way you do that is by talking about your values. If you go in, just trying to push sales, you're going to lose people. If you go in, and you say, "Look, let's take a example of ..." A really easy one ... A company that makes baby gear that's an eco-company, right? This company is going to talk about the fact that, "Look, we value sustainable products. We value fair-trade products. Let's feature some of our vendors. Where we get the products from ... Let's take some product shots from our manufacturing facility. Let's really talk about why these products are really important to have around your baby and in your home."
If you really look at what your values are as a brand, you have so much to talk about that your customers want to hear. The brands go off on this other track, where they don't realize that that is the most important thing. We want to know about the companies that we're buying from. If they tell us what is important to them, and we find resonance with that, you've just made a loyal customer. You've just created trust, and trust is so hard to get with consumers these days.
If you're open about why you do what you do and what's important to you, you're going to draw the right customer, and they're immediately going to have trust for you. That's how we are as humans. If you and I meet, and we say, "Oh, we have the same religion," or "We have the same location" or the same profession ... We find these things very important, these principles of how we live and make our decisions in kind. It's inevitable. You have trust between each other now.
Who are you? Then you've got to understand really your customers. If you know what your customers need from you on an emotional level ... I don't mean emotional support, but I mean if somebody comes to you and they're frustrated, or they're angry, or they're fearful about something ... They're looking to your product to satisfy or change that for them, and you can say, "Hey, we understand that that's what you're here for. This is ... What we promised to you, we're going to give you."
That's amazing content. It also builds trust. It also gives people the reason why they need to choose you. Rather than just going for the sale, you've got to give people reasons why. That's what they want to know. They don't care what you did ... Ate for dinner ... They don't care about your employees' birthdays. They care about why you're in business and what you're going to do for them. Talk about that.
Robert Plank: Interesting ... The values and the reasons why ... That even makes me think of ... I think a day or two ago, I was just randomly sitting around my house, and I was randomly thinking, "Well, what would happen if ... Say my car was parked in a parking lot, and maybe someone opened the door on it and just dinged it. Just for whatever random reason ... I was just having this weird, random thought. I ended up doing some kind of search on my phone, and what showed up in the results was some kind of blog post by some kind of car, I guess ... People who repair cars, the little scratches and dings ...
Kyra Reed: Mm-hmm (affirmative)-
Robert Plank: It was just this little random story about someone went to some restaurant. The car was dinged up. They waited for the person who had clearly parked next to them and waited for them to come out.
Kyra Reed: Oh, gosh.
Robert Plank: It was like, "Who knows if this story was true?" They just told this blog post about this family ... Car got dinged ... They thought it would be not a big thing to worry about. They almost drove off. Then they did the insurance stuff, and then, it turned into ... Then they went to this little repair guy who just lives in this area, and they were ... The insurance covered it, and they just told this story. That just sticks out to me as you're explaining that just from a couple days ago, where I just randomly just had a weird thought, right? Landed on this blog post from this local business owner, who just told this random story and gave this helpful content that, "Okay, now. I've got it filed away."
All I need to do to find that person again is do that same sort of search, which somebody might actually be making that search if they're trying to solve that problem, I guess.
Kyra Reed: That's right. Now, if that happens to you, you've got that in your mind. You know exactly where you're going to go.
Robert Plank: Yeah. That's a pretty good first impression for me to make with this random, local business that I never even would have heard of otherwise.
Kyra Reed: Mm-hmm (affirmative)- This is the great thing about social. These things happen all the time. You never know where business is going to come from, and Nic used to call these "breadcrumbs." You spread them out throughout the internet, little marks that you leave behind. Positive reviews ... Little stories, blog posts, being on different social networks, engaging with people, leaving comments in people's posts ...
All of these things ... You never know who's going to see it. Do you know that 900 million people a day log into Facebook? That's almost 3 times the size of the United States.
Robert Plank: Crazy. It sounds like matter of just all these little things that on their own wouldn't mean much, but added up mean a lot.
Kyra Reed: Yes. Exactly.
Robert Plank: Cool. I like that most of the things that we're talking about here all lead back to the 5 things. Who are you? Who are you talking to? What are you saying? How are you selling, and then the growth and maintenance ... Along those lines, could you tell us, Kyra, about your agency and your websites and your books and all that cool stuff about you.
Kyra Reed: Sure. The agency is called "Made to Order." The Website is MTOAgency.com. You can find me at @KyraReed. You can find us on Instagram at social media for entrepreneurs. We have just released 2 new programs. One is for people who are struggling with self-promotion. There's a lot of fear around self-promotion, especially for women to step out and talk about themselves.
I've been working with a lot of female business owners, and what I realize is they need 2 things. They need a very simple plan that they can get their feet wet and start to see results. They need something to replace the fear. This program does both. It's called "Self-Promotion Mastery." Then we also have a program called, "Power to THRIVE Mastermind," and this is a 12-week course, where we take you through those 5 steps so that, by the end, you have a solid brand. You know who your customers are.
You know how to communicate with them. You have a content strategy. You have a sales strategy. You have your growth strategy. You know how to execute on all of them, and you'll be seeing results very quickly, like you never expected. Social will change your entire business.
Robert Plank: Awesome. I've already heard from you those lots of little tidbits about ... You saved a whole street basically, right?
Kyra Reed: Mm-hmm (affirmative)- Yep.
Robert Plank: Because of social media.
Kyra Reed: Yep.
Robert Plank: Awesome.
Kyra Reed: A very famous street. Actually, we've done it twice. We did it with Sunset Strip and Main Street in Santa Monica.
Robert Plank: Cool. It works over and over again. It wasn't just-
Kyra Reed: Yep.
Robert Plank: Wasn't just a fluke ...
Kyra Reed: Nope.
Robert Plank: That social media stuff is here to stay. There's something to that.
Kyra Reed: Yes, it is. Yep.
Robert Plank: Cool. Thanks for stopping by and sharing all your great insights, Kyra.
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132: Influence with a Heart: Find Your Secret Sauce and Purpose with Ben Gioia
Ben Gioia, author of Influence with a Heart and Marketing with a Heart, tells us how to use trust marketing for greater income, influence, and impact.
Ben has helped AARP launch one of the world's biggest magazines with 32 million circulation, and he's a trained, or he's trained top business leaders at Stanford University, and supported the ALS Association in improving healthcare and quality of life for thousands of people with Lou Gehrig's Disease after almost dying 4 times in 72 hours on a hike in India. We're going to have to talk about that for sure. Ben received a gift, a fire inside to make a bigger impact. Today, he teaches entrepreneurs, visionaries, organizations, and leaders how to communicate with more influence by using more empathy, story, and thought leadership. Lots of cool stuff. Welcome to the show, Ben.
Ben Gioia: Thank you so much, Robert. It's a pleasure to be here, thank you for asking me.
Robert Plank: Awesome. I mean, yeah, I'm glad you stopped by. Can you kind of tell us, I mean, there's that little bit of bio there, but can you kind of tell us in your own words what it is you do, what's kind of driving you right now, and what makes you special?
Ben Gioia: Absolutely, absolutely. Thank you so much. Gosh. Yeah, I'm going to, I guess, start this off, kick this off with a little bit about that story in India. Basically, I had this incredible hike, 72 hours, where I almost died 4 times, and it was ... My bus going, almost going off the road as we're going up a windy mountain curve. I mean, literally, the back of the bus was like skittering the edge and almost sliding off. The second time was running from a fire. It hadn't rained where we were in about 4 months, and literally, my guide turned to me at one point because he heard some agitated yelling, I couldn't understand it in English, off in the distance, and he said over his shoulder, "Run," and I said, "Run?" He went running off down the path.
Third time, we came upon a poisonous snake that I wouldn't have seen at all, just right in the path, tiny snake. My guide fortunately stopped me, and then ... The last time was running into a mountain lion, kind of stumbling upon a mountain lion. I think we were surprised, he or she was surprised, and fortunately, the mountain lion ran away; so, that was a wake-up call or a series of wake-up calls that just made me realize, "What an amazing gift this life is, my life. If I'm here on this Earth, and I'm functional and capable, I'm going to do good in the world;" so I started thinking about, "How could I do that?"
I pulled together talents, experience, all that kind of stuff, and that was the thing that brought Marketing With A Heart to the light; because I realized that there's so many people and good in the world, there's the whole idea of conscious business and transparency and ethical communication, all that stuff, and I realized that that needed to come into the marketing space as well. People felt good about their marketing, really would lead with value, be transparent, and really resonate and connect with the right audiences, so they could stop focusing so much on competition; and really focus on creativity and collaboration, and magnetizing the right people by speaking truthfully and honestly about themselves, who they served, what they do, and their secret sauce, and how that all makes it happen, so ...
Yeah, so did that for a bunch of years, and then Marketing With A Heart kind of morphed into Influence With A Heart, which is what that is today. I launched that just a few months ago, and it's been a rocket ship since I changed that. Influence With A Heart was what, I realized, made so much more sense for who I am and what I want to do in the world. Right after that happened, I got this 2-day training at Stanford. I wrote my second book, and I actually just got asked by Liberty Mutual Insurance Company to create content for a customer ... Like a front-line customer service program that would basically help the employees be more mindful, use more empathy, and they want to roll that out to 15,000 people, so ... Really, really excited about that possibility. I literally heard that, about that 2 days ago.
Robert Plank: Awesome. I mean, lots of cool things happening. As far as what it is that you do, I mean, you have the book, you have this writing ... I mean, what is your business exactly that you have? Coaching clients, do you have products, like what are the pieces to it?
Ben Gioia: Yeah. Yeah. I do have coaching clients, and I'm doing speaking gigs and then a couple of consulting gigs as well. The essence of what I do is really help people articulate their purpose much more excitingly and effectively than they ever have before, both in terms of what they're displaying to the world and in terms of themselves. Because when people get really, really clear on their purpose and are able to articulate it and get behind it, and get behind themselves, that it just, it changes the whole game. Articulating that purpose on a much higher level and then weaving that energy and even the direct articulation into their messaging, into how they're delivering their products, into how they're presenting themselves. When you're operating from a place of purpose, people really resonate with that. That comes through your face-to-face energy. It comes through your writing. It comes through you on video, through how you're presenting on video, so help get really super articulate with their message and then really also articulate their secret sauce, right?
We all have amazing history, amazing experience. Sure, not all of us died 4, all died 4 times in India, but that's not even the point, right? It's our story that ... It's the stories that we choose that we know are going to connect with other people, and that our great expressions are for. I help people also connect to that story, bring that out through their writing, through their communication, and kind of getting clear on that purpose and getting clear on that story. That's the articulation to the secret sauce. When you can get that together, your positioning as a thought leader just becomes so much more powerful, because you're not just an expert, but you're this unique expert with this unique offering, with this unique story or set of stories, and that's the stuff that really, really makes you, can make you resonate with the right audience and the right kind of people.
Robert Plank: Along those lines, could you share with us a little bit of maybe like a case study or something where you had one of these coaching clients, or maybe they had some good things to say, maybe they were onto something, and then you kind of ran them through your system and you were able to reposition them and articulate them better and share their secret sauce? Do you mind sharing a little bit of like a before-and-after with someone that you've gone through?
Ben Gioia: Yeah, I would be delighted to do that. Yeah, I have a couple of quick examples. One is, excuse me, have been working with a high-end boutique technology company here in the area that does customized apps, web apps, and websites also, but their apps are probably functioning things for hospitals, serving people with AIDS, all sorts of deep impact. What the CEO of this company really wanted to do was to do many more projects that were exciting to him, not only exciting, but really connected to his sense of purpose. We dug and dug and talked about stuff, and we realized something very, very simple and yet profound, that this person, what his secret sauce is that he speaks the language of tech and non-tech, so he can speak just as easily to a non-technical person as he's getting a contract together, or he can talk to programmers down in the trenches and really get the things done. While it sounds like such a simple articulation, so straightforward, it has really shifted both his energy around his business, and the people he's starting to attract.
Then another quick example is a health coach that I work with also here in the Bay Area. She does some, they have straightforward nutrition and health and mindfulness kind of things, and she also does a little bit more of what some people might consider some woo-woo healing techniques. I mean, she's legit, don't get me wrong, but a lot of people don't, are still learning about alternative non-Western ways to do stuff.
Robert Plank: Oh, yeah.
Ben Gioia: It took her years to figure out ... Thank you. It took her years to figure out how to express that. When we started working together, she still wasn't there, and what we realized was that she helps stressed out professionals and urbanites in the Bay Area in Silicon Valley be happier, healthier, and more aligned with their purpose. That was a huge, huge thing, because it wasn't just, "Oh, I'm a health coach," but it was, really gave her the ability to do the thing that she loves, that she's excellent at, and position that around the people that she wants to attract most.
Robert Plank: Along those lines, is there a little bit of a method to the madness? Like when you look at these businesses to help, do you eyeball it, or do you list out hundreds of things, or do you ask any deep probing questions? What goes to your head? What's the process between going from, you hear about their business, into what they should be doing instead?
Ben Gioia: Absolutely, absolutely, yeah. I will check out their website, of course, and kind of do, I think, what many marketers would do when they were looking at somebody's content. Just basically go, "Okay, are they talking to one particular audience, or are they are connecting with the pains and emotions and fears and dreams and desires and all that stuff?" I look at that and get a sense of what it is, and then what I do is, I give them a questionnaire. I have a customized questionnaire that I use, and I ask them kind of like, "What's your purpose? What's your secret sauce?" I ask them in a more kind of one-to-one way to answer all of those questions, and those questions are geared toward the information that they should ostensibly be sharing through their marketing, through their communications, etc. What I often find, like 9 out of 10 times, is that what people say in that questionnaire to me is radically different than what they say on their websites and what they say on LinkedIn about themselves.
I think the reason for that is because there's the whole notion of what I should say, quote-unquote should say and how I should present myself, and how I should look to the public. Then those things are fine, but this is a human-to-human interaction all the time, even when we're on the web, right? The stuff that needs to come through is the human stuff, and my questionnaire helps people really, really get to that human stuff. After they do that and I review that, the questionnaire, I get back on the phone and I say, "Hey, your website says this, but you say this, and this sounds true, and you sound excited over here, so why don't we look at bringing more of you, your story, your amazing background, your secret sauce, into the mix, and really put you, or at least put your energy right out front?"
Robert Plank: Do you think there's a reason why the public-facing bio, I guess, and the public-facing stuff doesn't match up with the questionnaire? Is it a matter of people being too careful and afraid to look stupid, or was there more time to kind of think through their message between when they first put up the webpage versus when they came to you? What do you think is the reason for that kind of disconnect there?
Ben Gioia: Yeah, thank you. That's a great question, and I think it's a few things, different people, but the things that I see most often is because somebody put up a website a long time ago, didn't update it as their thinking and perspective changed. For some people, it's that putting themselves, putting their face out in the world, that there's still some hesitation around putting themselves out there, bringing their best and most badass self, whatever that looks like to them, out front. Because there's so much messaging, I think, that so many of us were raised with, around, "Be quiet. Don't make too much noise. Behave. Do things like everybody else is doing," or even the worst kind of messaging of like, "Oh, you won't be able to do that because you don't have the looks, the skills, the grades," all of that kind of stuff. I think there's so much embedded learning probably from when we were about 3, 3 to 5, that gets stuck in there. Then the other part of it, too, I think, is people spend so much time looking at what other people are doing, which is important, of course.
You want to see who else is in your market and outside of your market to have a comparison, but at the end of the day, you have to be yourself and you have to really put yourself and your best foot forward. I think the last part of it, and this comes up with some people, is that they're not super clear on their purpose, on their core purpose, and then when they're bringing that, or attempting to bring that out through their business and what they're offering, then messaging is a little behind because they're not totally aligned internally.
Robert Plank: I mean, that makes a lot of sense. What I'm hearing a lot of what you mention is, when you're looking at anyone's business, it sounds almost like the things you're looking for are like the emotional hot buttons, and a lot of people are missing the emotion in their websites, it sounds like.
Ben Gioia: Absolutely, yeah. Yeah, that's true. They're not speaking to the experience of their ideal client or their audience. Right? I mean, it's so funny, because in a lot of ways it's like marketing and communications 101. Communicate to people in and around the things that they care deeply about, and show them that you have something for them in that context, a solution, a next step, whatever the case may be, and a lot of people end up talking about themselves, like, "I can do this. My product does this," but it's not customer, client or prospect-focused.
Robert Plank: It's not focused on, "What's in it for me?" Right?
Ben Gioia: Exactly. Exactly. Thank you, yeah.
Robert Plank: Would you say that if you were to look at, or think back about, the different clients and people you've worked with, is there a huge number 1 mistake, and would you say like maybe, is that the mistake that people are talking about themselves and not their clients, or is there an even bigger mistake, even bigger common thread you're seeing with all these people that you help out?
Ben Gioia: Yeah, yeah. Great question. I think a huge, huge one is talking too much about themselves, and another one, huge one, is not talking enough about themselves. The reason why I say that is because one of big things I teach is this idea of story, storytelling. I mean, storytelling is the oldest ... It's as old as human history. Before we had any kind of written communication, before people were drawing on walls and caves, they were telling each other stories. It was oral tradition, and that was the way to cultivate all that stuff around trust and connection to community, connection to tribe, and to safety, right? To have that circle be safe, and a lot of people today, they don't go enough into their story, right? They might talk a little bit about it, "I was CEO of such-and-such a company," but they don't actually say, okay, what did they do there? Not just the actions did they take, but what results did they bring, who did they bring it for, how did that create a transformation for the organization for an entire population of people? Whatever the case may be, right?
There's this funny balance of, yeah, absolutely you have to talk about your customer, their experience, etc., and, says me, and this is, I've proven this with a whole bunch of clients now, you have to talk about yourself, tell your story, and ask people to tell you stories. Right? Like you want to create empathy, and empathy that's going in both directions. Right? You want to see the world through this other person's eyes, and you want to give this other person the opportunity to see the world through your eyes.
Robert Plank: I mean, that sounds like some pretty interesting stuff there.
Ben Gioia: Yeah.
Robert Plank: I mean, with all this ... I mean, all these little things I think about here and there is, there ... I don't know, is there something kind of interesting you've been working on lately? I don't mean necessarily in terms of like, I know like you mentioned that, you had your new opportunities, like published stuff to different audiences, but just as far as like some kind of marketing technique or tool or just something like that. What's just the latest kind of cutting-edge thing you've been playing around with?
Ben Gioia: That's a great question. Yeah, gosh, it's ... One really interesting thing, and this is circumstantial, is getting ready to do a talk and actually a training. This training is going to be with an international audience, most of whom don't speak English, so I'm actually doing it with a translator. This is a really, really interesting exercise for me, because it's, how do I get super ultra crystal clear in everything that I'm saying, and chunk it down into really, really discreet packages of ideas, so I can say something, say a few sentences, pause, and allow the translator to understand what I say, translate it in her head, and then say it out to the audience in a way that they understand. Right? I'm looking at my language being really, really spare with the things that I'm saying, taking out colloquialisms, taking out jokes, all of those kinds of things. It's an interesting exercise in this really crystal clear communication, and it's also a really interesting exercise in being a presenter in this situation.
How do I maintain that energy, that high level of engaged energy in myself, when I have to pause and wait for the person to translate? Right? I have to be like, "Ya-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta," and then wait and hold that energy in myself, so the next thing I say is, "Ya-ta-ta-ta-ta."
Robert Plank: Interesting.
Ben Gioia: Yeah.
Robert Plank: I mean, yeah, it seems like kind of like a new adventure to kind of push you outside your comfort zone, because like you said, you need to kind of strip a lot away and use simple language, but also seem smart and have something good to say, but then the rhythm and the pacing's going to be weird, but then maybe you can use that to your advantage to kind of let things land, or pause to think, I guess.
Ben Gioia: Yeah, and thank you for saying that. It's interesting, too, because the audience is a whole bunch of super, super successful business people, six-figure kind of earners. This is not an audience of beginners. These are people who have been doing their thing for a whole bunch of years now, so there's that added dimension, for me, of, "Wow, I have to make this potent and insightful," and all of that stuff, and do all the things that I just mentioned before about keeping it super clear and spare.
Robert Plank: Right. I mean, yeah, sounds like a lot of stuff to kind of keep straight in your head, but once you figure it out, sounds like a lot of fun.
Ben Gioia: Yeah. I think so. I'm really, really, really looking forward to it.
Robert Plank: Well, cool. If anyone wants to know about you, Ben, no matter what language they speak, what country they're in, if they're newbies, they're advanced, where should they go to find out about you and your stuff that you sell, and your books, and everything like that?
Ben Gioia: Thank you, thank you. Yeah, so my website is influencewithaheart.com. Basically all the stuff is there, and you can also find my books on Amazon. Again, the beauty of Amazon is that it's also worldwide. I have 2 books now, Influence With A Heart, which is the new one, and the first one, which was the bestseller Marketing With A Heart, as well. I'd be delighted for anybody who's listening to this podcast to come check out my stuff. I think you'll get a whole lot out of it, and it'll really serve you and your business in a great way.
Robert Plank: Awesome. I think so too. That's Ben Gioia, influencewithaheart.com. Thanks for stopping by the show.
Ben Gioia: Thank you so much, Robert, and appreciate all the things you do. Like I said, the audience doesn't know this, but you and I met several years ago, and I really learned a ton of things from you back then, and was really inspired by the way you do your things, so thank you so much. It's nice to come full circle and be on your show.
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131: Inner Game, Journaling and Coaching with Kim Ades
Kim Ades from Frame of Mind Coaching shares her secrets to identifying internal problems, overcoming limiting beliefs and challenging our thinking through journaling and getting a coach. She also tells us how to make huge changes in our own lives and shares how she setup her coaching business.
Kim Ades: I'm really, super excited to be talking to you today. Thank you for having me on your show.
Robert Plank: Heck yeah, I am right there with you. I know nothing about you, so can you fill us in on your website, yourself, what you do, what makes you unique and special?
Kim Ades: I live in Toronto. I have five kids, as you mentioned. I run a coaching company called Frame of Mind coaching, we coach the highly driven population that is moving and shaking and highly frustrated. That's who we coach and we really look at their thinking and how their thinking is impacting their results. One of the big things we do when we coach people is we ask them to journal every single day for the duration of the coaching period and they share their journals with their coach. We go back and forth every single day. It's pretty intense and it's very very intimate.
Robert Plank: Cool, so how did you come across this? What's basically your journey been? How were things out of balanced or misaligned years ago versus where you've come, where you are now?
Kim Ades: I mean, historically, I used to own a software company. We used to build simulation-based assessments and the purpose of those assessments were to help companies make better hiring decisions. One of the pieces of my past is that we conducted hundreds of thousands of assessments and collected a lot of interesting data. The data said to us that there was really one main distinction between top performers and others. It didn't matter what field, it didn't matter what level of job we were looking at or what industry and that one distinction was if that person had a higher degree of emotional resilience, their likelihood of success was dramatically higher than the rest of the population. So that's one part of my past. The other part of my past is more personal. I was married, had a tough marriage towards the end, ended up getting divorced and my life exploded.
I owned my last company with my ex-husband, ended up having to sell my shares and I had to recreate my life and one of the ways I did it was through the process of journaling. I journaled just to get everything out of my brain, all the worries, all the fears, all the anger, all the frustration, all the anxiety, all of it. I started to realized that journaling is very very powerful tool to help people move to a new place. That's how I, when I started Frame of Mind Coaching, I incorporated journaling from the get-go.
Robert Plank: I mean, with all this journaling stuff, I kind of go back to it every now and then. I always hear about it, I hear it's this good thing to do, but I don't have a very good system or structure to do it consistently. Do you have some kind of formula like is there a set like a time of day you do it, is there a set prompt or is it a set length of wordage, length of time? What's the process for this journaling stuff for you?
Kim Ades: There's so many different things. When we journal with our clients, they journal every day. They can pick whatever time of day they like. A lot of my clients journal right before bed. It's a funny thing, but that's when they journal. Their whole day is past and now they're doing a download so I have that. I have another set of clients that journal right in the morning, but remember this is journaling with your coach, so every time they journal, their journal comes to me as their coach and I read and respond to the journal. So imagine a journal that talks back. It's like you're in this dialogue every single day, so it's a very very rich experience. Let's say you don't have a coach, let's say you're just journaling. One of the things that we do is we provide people with the opportunity to journal on a regular process and we give them journaling prompts, so that's a program called FOM or Frame of Mind Essentials.
Every three days you get a new journaling prompt and why every three days? Because we give you a little bit of time to process what you're writing on the first day because sometimes you need to think about the question you're being asked. I encourage you to access prompt somehow, through Frame of Mind Coaching or otherwise there's lots out there, lots available. If you don't want to do any of those things and you just want to do free flow journaling, here's the formula I recommend and you guys can write this down. It's one sentence. It's very easy. It's dump, dump, and dump the dump. So what is that? You have a lot going on, you have a lot on your mind so you want to write it down. You want to unload. When you think you're done, keep going, keep dumping, right?
Robert Plank: Right.
Kim Ades: At the very end of your dumping, what you want to do is literally write down one sentence down that says, it's time to turn myself around. At that point what you want to do is say okay, so what do I want? Where am I going? What am I hoping for? What am I grateful for? At that point, you're literally turning your mindset, your thinking, your orientation towards what you want. Your journal needs to be a tool. What is the tool supposed to do? Always help you point in the right direction.
Robert Plank: Well cool, so would you say all this journaling stuff, is this just one piece of many or is journaling your main focus for this kind of stuff?
Kim Ades: Well, what I do is I help people start to become aware of their thinking. When I coach people, I coach them for six months, but the first ten weeks are the most important. That's the foundation so there's a call once a week and I record every call, so that's a piece of it too. Why? Because when people can listen to themselves and hear how they show up, they can hear the language they use, the stories they tell, the perspective they have. They can tell what they're repeating over and over again. They start to pick up the patterns of their thinking and how some of those patterns keep them trapped and stuck. It's listening to yourself, it's writing, it's re-reading what you wrote, it's answering questions, it's doing some reflection, it's challenging your beliefs, it's all of that.
Robert Plank: So would you say that for some people going through this process is pretty tough, pretty painful if they haven't done it before?
Kim Ades: No, actually, I mean there are some painful moments, but it's generally not painful. It's kind of like being unleashed from self-imprisonment. That's what it is, so that's not painful at all. It's really actually a really joyous, exciting, freeing journey. It's remarkable. People feel lighter, happier. Almost all of the clients report one thing in common and it's at the end of their first ten weeks, people look at them and say, "You look different. Did you get a haircut? You look taller" or something. They start to physically look different because they're so much lighter.
Robert Plank: Well cool, so it looks like a lot of what you do to help people is get them to be self aware, right, I guess. By doing the journaling ... Oh, go ahead.
Kim Ades: It's more than being self aware, it's identifying the thinking that is keeping them trapped or stuck or causing them problems. I'll give you a perfect example. I have a client who has a belief and the belief is that everybody, he works in a small city, and he believe everybody in his city does not want his success. That belief slows him down. That belief causes him to be defensive and experience a lot of friction with other business owners in his neighborhood. It doesn't help him succeed. It hurts him. I'll give you another example. Another client of mine has the belief that he'll never match up to his parent's level of success and no matter how hard he tries that he just doesn't have what it takes in order to succeed. That kind of thinking also erodes his likelihood of success.
Robert Plank: Interesting. It seems like, with the right tools, it could be something that could be easy to fix, but if we don't even know that that problem's there, but it will just block everything it sounds like.
Kim Ades: It blocks everything. It's funny that you use the word tool. It's not so much of that "tools to fix it," it's about challenging your fundamental thinking. We operate with thinking, but a lot of that thinking is kind of self conscientious. We're not aware of it. The question is first becoming aware of it, putting it on the table, and then challenging the heck out of it. You used the word heck, I like that word, I'm going to take it.
Robert Plank: Go for it.
Kim Ades: Challenging the heck out of the thoughts that you have that simply don't make sense. We invent our view of the world. We make things up. We make stories up and if we have the ability to make stories up, why are we making stories up that make it harder for us to succeed? I mean, it could be that I'm not lovable. It could be like I had a call with a client the other day that said, "I'm terrified that I'm going to be poor. I'm afraid of poverty. I saw what happened to my parents and that scares the living daylights out of me, so I'm very cheap and I'm constantly living with the fear of loss." Well, I don't know. How does that manifest, right, how does that show up? It means that he's not making decisions that propel him forward. He's always tight-fisted and not taking any valuable risks and he's always scared. That's not going to lead him to success.
Robert Plank: So with these different clients that you work with, do they all have a common problem or is there a common threat with all these people that you're helping out?
Kim Ades: Everybody has a different story or set of stories. One person may have a conflict with their partner, another person may have had a really tough childhood, another person may be very very health conscious and that's all he thinks about. Another person might be a perfectionist, another person might get annoyed easily, another person might have a problem with rage. Actually I had a client recently who started off his coaching process by saying, I'm a rager. I said what does that mean and he said that means I get really really mad. I throw things when I'm mad, I punch things, I break things, I get mad and I yell and I scream and the house shakes. I've never hurt anybody, but I'm a rager.
Well, ten weeks later, that just doesn't exist. It's gone, it's finished, it's over and the question is what caused his rage? The cause of his rage was he believed that other people's behaviors were a good reason for him to lose it all the time. He always, constantly felt offended by the actions and behaviors of others. He started to learn that the actions of others had very little to do with him. So yes, what we see is different stories and we also see a different set of beliefs. However, at the core of it, the issue is, what does someone believe to be true about themselves and the world around them and others? In a sense, everybody's journey is very unique, but it's parallel, it's similar.
Robert Plank: Okay, that makes a lot of sense. With all these people that you've been helping and all these different techniques that you have, do you have anything lately that's been very excite- ... Either a technique to help people or a current project you're working on? I mean, what kind of new and cutting edge thing has you excited right now?
Kim Ades: Well, there's a couple things. Number one is I'm doing a lot of speaking. I'm out there working with organizations and teaching leaders that acquiring coaching skills is a really critical part of being a great leader. So, I'm working with a lot of leaders on their coaching skills. That's kind of cool and exciting. The other thing is, you asked for techniques or tools, and if your listeners are up for it, I'll give them an assignment. Do I have permission from you to do that?
Robert Plank: Yeah, go for it. Heck yeah.
Kim Ades: Heck yeah! So the assignment is this. It's a journaling assignment. So write this down. Grab a piece of paper and a pen and write this down. It's three questions. Question number one, what do you really really want more than anything? The reason I ask for two really's is because it's what do you want opposed to what anybody else wants. So think about it, what do you really really want? Question two is, how would your life be different if you had what you really really wanted? What does it mean to you and would it be okay if you didn't ever get what you really really wanted? Question number three is, so what's stopping you from having what you really really want right now? What I want you to do is when you answer those three questions, I want you to send them to me, Kim@Frameofmindcoaching.com and what I will do is assign your journal to one of my coaches and that coach will reach out to you and schedule a time to review your journal. That exercise has a profound impact on anybody who does it.
Robert Plank: That's cool. I mean, I'll fill that in, I'll send that over to you too.
Kim Ades: Perfect and if you do that then I will schedule myself with you, how about that?
Robert Plank: That's the VIP treatment. That's the red carpet treatment right there.
Kim Ades: That's right.
Robert Plank: Cool, so how about we switch gears a little bit and I'm glad you brought that up actually because you have basically this skill you have and you have this problem that you're using to help people. Now you set up this website so is that technique just mentioned there where you get on podcast, you ask people to send in the three answers to these things, is that a way you have to generate leads and kind of build your business online?
Kim Ades: Yeah, I mean definitely podcasts is a lead generation tool. If you go to frameofmindcoaching.com, we also have an assessment that people fill in and those assessments get distributed to our coaches and people get the opportunity to talk to a coach and review their assessments. It's a powerful call, but that also gives our coaches an opportunity to share the coaching program and enroll people into coaching. There's another lead generation tool as well. Yeah, we do podcasts, I do speaking engagements. When I'm in front of people and I'm talking to them, I offer them a white paper at which point I send it to them later so they have to give me their contact information. I add them to our database, we send them newsletters on a weekly basis and so those newsletters involve client testimonials, history, stories, and all kinds of things.
Robert Plank: I'm kind of looking at the website and you're mentioning that there are different coaches and like a team and stuff and so what's the reason for that? What's the reason for having a group as opposed to just you doing the coaching?
Kim Ades: Well I never wanted to just be a single person service provider. I think of myself as a business owner and so how do I leverage me, right? If I'm the only one doing the coaching, I have a ceiling in terms of time. How much time can I give? It's kind of like being a dentist or a doctor or a lawyer, I'm trading my time for money. I never wanted to do that, I always wanted to grow a business. So how you leverage yourself as a business owner, A. You can have other people who do it too. That's a form of leverage. Another form of leverage is to have products and services that don't require your physical involvement. For example, FoM essentials is a self guided journaling program where people come on, they purchase a monthly, what do you call it, recurring fee, and they get journaling prompts and they submit their journals to a coach up to twice a month for review. Now I have this combination of leverage, right?
The other thing that we have is, we built a journaling software, journaling platform to serve out clients. Well, that journaling platform is a independent unit and we license out that product and white label it for other speakers, coaches, trainers, membership groups, anyone who wants to incorporate journaling in their training or culture building process.
Robert Plank: Did you come across any difficulty like getting anyone else involved with this? Was there any amount of chicken and the egg kind of thing or because you made the software, was that like easier to get people on board?
Kim Ades: What do you mean by that? Did I have trouble getting people to journal?
Robert Plank: I mean like the other coaches like why would other coaches jump in as opposed to just doing it themselves?
Kim Ades: Oh yeah, this is my story, this is my kind of path is that what's happened for me is that people have gone through coaching and they've had such an extraordinary experience with the brand, the process, the methodology, the philosophy, all of that. They've had such an overwhelmingly positive personal experience that at the end of their coaching, they say, man, I want more. How do I become a coach? Can you train me? So we literally certify coaches in the Frame of Mind coaching method and then at the end of that process there are some of them that are just superstars and we want to keep them as part of the team. That's how you see those coaches. I don't just go find coaches out there in the world and say hey, do you want to join me? I don't do that.
Robert Plank: So that's cool. There's actually a path for your students to become their own coaches?
Kim Ades: Yes, exactly. I hand pick the ones that will stay with the group and the rest go off and do their own thing.
Robert Plank: With this certification program thing that you have, is there any amount of like a testing process or a probationary period? Do you have any kind of work flow for that?
Kim Ades: Yeah, of course. First they, every one of my coaches go through coaching first. It's mandatory. There's no discussion around that and then they come into Toronto, where I live, for training. They come in for four days for a pretty intense training where they learn the mechanics of coaching, like the methods. It's called FoM methods. There's another piece called foundations which is the philosophy, the meaning, how it got built. After that, if they are selected because I'm watching the whole time, I see how they show up, I see their ability to absorb the information and the approach, I see how they read and respond to journals because we give them that as exercises and practice. I see how well they get it. I see whether it's a natural fit for them or if it's really a stretch. I see all of that. I see their level of commitment too and their dedication and how badly they want it and those are the people I work with. If those people show up, then they have to coach a certain number of hours and then have an exam and then they get certified with me in my company.
Robert Plank: That's cool and I always like thinking about that kind of stuff. We all have this kind of raw talent or kind of almost like an artistic way of looking at something and thinking it through. I really like just taking what it is what you do and systematizing it, stepping it out, and replicating it and scaling it. I think that's pretty awesome.
Kim Ades: Yeah, it's not that usual in the coaching industry to do that, but most of what we do, we try to build it in such a way that it's scalable. Eventually, even certification, I'll get someone else to step in for training. It won't have to be exclusively me.
Robert Plank: Okay, cool, yeah. I like everything that you've been sharing today about taking this thing that's been around for every like coaching or therapy in whatever kind of way you want to put it in and just putting a new spin on it and using teamwork and using this whole internet thing to get more eyeballs on your business and stuff like that.
Kim Ades: That's right.
Robert Plank: Before I let you go and before we wind down and before we ask where people can find out about you, is there just one thing or one message you should tell everyone who's looking to turn things around and fix stuff? Is there one universal message you tell to anyone who's just trying to be better?
Kim Ades: Can I give you two universal concepts?
Robert Plank: Perfect, let's do it.
Kim Ades: For people who are in business and they're trying to grow their businesses, and they're trying to do ten million things at the same time, what I would suggest to you is, don't do ten million things. Do three and just narrow it down. There are a million ways somebody can generate leads, but if you attempt to do those million things right up front, you only have so much energy and resources to apply to those million things. Pick a few and be amazing in those things. For example, with me, I really do a lot of podcasts. I enjoy them, they're fun, they're easy, they're low stress and I get to be in my zone. I choose that as my method of lead generation. Choose one thing and stick to it.
On a personal level, so if anybody wants to change, my suggestion is this and it's a pretty big one, don't look out there to do something different in order to change. People often think that they have to take massive order to change and I would say to you that if you take massive action without first figuring out what your orientation is, like where are you standing, where are you heading, where are you facing? What's going on with you? You have to do the personal work first before you take massive action. I can't express that enough. Most coaches move you to action and I would say don't stop, don't go crazy, don't take massive action. Stop and figure out how your thinking is either propelling you forward or holding you back and if it's holding you back, change your orientation and then take massive action. Do that work first.
Robert Plank: That's some pretty powerful stuff. It kind of makes you think a little bit. Thanks for being on the show, Kim. Thanks for sharing everything that you have to share with us. Could you tell us about your websites, where people can find you, all that good stuff?
Kim Ades: FrameofMindCoaching.com, there's a free downloadable book there. There's an assessment that I encourage everybody to take and again that will help you identify what your orientation is. Where are you standing right now? How are things going in your life? It will give you an opportunity to talk to one of our coaches who will review the assessment with you. Lots and lots of things to look at. We've got plogs, past podcasts, lots of cool things on the site so please visit us.
Robert Plank: Awesome. FrameOfMindCoaching.com. So thanks again Kim for being on the show and for sharing what you have to share with us.
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130: Fix Your Process and Goals to Undo the Past and Create the Future with Personal Growth Innovator Matt Powell
Entrepreneur and martial arts teacher Matt Powell from the Pramek organization tells us why we fail, how to stop being "right" all the time, gain focus, break the cycle, set goals, and so much more. He's also the author of the book UNDO: Get Past The Past and Manage Your Future, which tells us how to cut ties to the past.
Matt Powell: Hey I'm glad to be on. I appreciate it Robert.
Robert Plank: Heck yeah. I understand that you have a lot of things to say and you have a lot of hobbies and you have this martial arts stuff, so can you kind of tell me a little bit about who is Matt Powell and what it is that you do, and what makes you unique and special?
Matt Powell: I know what makes me unique and special. My mom might say something different. About 20 years ago, I started learning this strange martial art no one had ever heard of, and that lead me to spending time in Russia training at their schools in martial arts in the early 2000's, and then coming back over here and teaching over here. Over time, we built our own organization called Pramek. That's P-R-A-M-E-K. We have a website, pramek.com. That started off as just guys in a garage, and I built it online and then in real world into an international organization with teachers all over the world.
The whole time I was doing that, I was also working my way up the corporate ladder into the corporate board room. I was starting online businesses. I was doing everything that I could possibly do. I'm not one of those people that sit still for very long. Over time I've published five books that are on Amazon, hundreds of videos on youtube, two dozen instructional videos for sale in the martial art world, as well as teaching seminars around the world. I learned a lot from that side of teaching, and teaching all those people in the system that we developed and the way that it developed. There was also the lessons learned of being in the corporate world and being an entrepreneur.
I decided about a year ago that I would start to take these and combine them into more of a, kind of do what Pramek did for martial art, pastless and Undo what do for the personal growth sector. I started to focus on taking the concept that worked so well for teaching people, everybody from the special forces to soccer mom, and starting applying it to personal growth. It's a very methodically laid out system based on what we saw work teaching people under the most stressful situations that they could apply towards personal growth, personal success, and the happiness side of the world, you might say.
Robert Plank: That's kind of interesting. Can you kind of tell me about this whole undo book and just basically, what are the steps, what's it about, how it all relates to the martial arts, the success and all that kind of stuff?
Matt Powell: We developed this learning system in martial art that we called the CLM. I developed it with a couple of PhDs that had PhDs in adult learning and psychology, because we found that the way that we were taught didn't translate to the way that people learned very well if they were learning mental and physical skills. We developed over time this learning system that now all these other schools and systems have adopted as their learning system. We found that people were learning skills faster than they were learning in other skills by using this.
I said okay. Let me look at ... It's all about the human brain. It's all about how the brain works, it's all about how the brain processes memories, how the brain forms habits. Let me take that over to the success side because whether you're learning to punch or whether you're learning to operate as an entrepreneur, you're going to develop physical and psychological habits to go along with success or failure. Life is a little like quicksand day to day. You can't unstick yourself until you stop moving and take stock of the situation around you. What Undo the book is is that Undo is ... We're undoing the past. It means that we're recognizing the why we fail, not what we fail at. A lot of people confuse that. They focus on the what they're failing at. People set goals, but then they don't consider if they're setting the right goals. They end up with a decent process to achieve goals, but they've set the wrong goals that weren't attainable. They kind of circle for a while.
What we do with Undo, is we try to break these cycles. We break that cycle. Then you're set up to where you can start setting goals because you've taken care of the underlying reasons why you're failing. Now you're able to start setting goals. What we do is then we have a workbook that goes along with Undo. It's a 40 page workbook that take you step-by-step through the whole process. It starts you at the goals that you had last year, the failures that you had last year, looking at those underlying reasons to why and not what, then setting up a process to fix that day to day so that you break that cycle of failure that's been going on, but there's the habits that you've picked up over time.
Then we do this long process of setting attainable goals all the way from the very beginning of free-writing out your goals to how you set your life on auto pilot using the book, to basically make goal achievement a habit. It's really about the book is kind of a, I don't want to say colloquial, but it's a very ... My editors hated it because I wrote it like I was speaking to somebody. I didn't write it like I was writing a book. Then the workbook follows along with it. Page by page, as you go through the book, you're going through the workbook at the same time. It's a very interesting process to kind of develop habits for people, to get out there and achieve the goals that they want to achiever.
Robert Plank: I love that. I think that ... Yeah, I know that over the years if I'm ever trying to get out of a funk or I'm always trying to switch to some kind of time management system, it's always like if the underlying foundation or whatever you want to call it, if that's still messed up, it doesn't even matter what I'm building towards, or what kind of system I'm using. It's like if the insides aren't right, then what's the point of anything. I like that. I like the Tim Ferris or the Matt Furey kind of stuff where it's like ... I don't know a thing about martial arts or any of that stuff, but I like the idea of breaking yourself down and then building yourself back up and having the discipline and the habits and the repetitions and all that kind of stuff. I like how, kind of like you mentioned there, that people kind of learn the stuff, but they also go through the work books so that way it kind of avoids the foo foo, hippy sort of feel good stuff. Is that right?
Matt Powell: Yeah. What we found ... Matt Furey. God I haven't talked to Matt in probably a decade. I used to talk to him back in the day, in martial art, I guess back in the mid 2000's. Tim has done some great systematic methodology to kind of exposing people methods so that other people can pick them up. I think ... I differ a little bit when you ask what makes you different is that you can have the best process in the world, but if you don't have the right goals, you're going to consistently get into a funk. You're going to go after 2016 with a 2015 mindset. A lot of times people have all these processes. That's why I did Undo because I saw that was happening in the martial art world. I traveled and taught thousands. Personally laying hands on what they were doing. I was seeing that these people, they've got this process but what they're trying to do, they never really thought through what they were trying to do at the end.
Steven Covey says, "I'm going to begin with the end in mind." Look at the goal and work backwards. Page by page and when you look at the reviews on Amazon, everybody says the same thing, like "Wow. This book actually works."
Robert Plank: That's pretty cool. I'm kind of looking through the reviews and things here. Could you kind of tell us about how this all happened for you? Was there a point where ... Was there a period of time before you discovered all this martial arts stuff, was there a period of time when there were specific things that were really wrong in your life and then kind of stumbling on this made you the person you are now? Does that kind of thing happen?
Matt Powell: There's nothing ever really ... I know a lot of times people have some epic moment or they have some type of challenge in their life or obstacles that they can't over come, and then they overcome it and it becomes inspirational. I love those stories ... A friend of mine that is a martial art instructor. He was born with half a heart, and he had steel rods in his back, and he's out there doing incredible karate stuff. I never had anything like that. I learned through kind of trial by fire between the martial arts and doing executive protection and law enforcement, and being under extremely stressful situations and then teaching other people extremely stressful situations.
What made me switch from martial art and move in this direction was that I did have a situation that really ... It's still tough to talk about a little bit. I had a childhood friend of mine, and over the years he and my brother stayed in contact, but I hadn't stayed in contact with him. My brother called me up one day and he said, "You know, he's got cancer, and he loves what you're doing with martial art, you really ought to give him a call." I didn't realize that he had stage four rare cancer and he was dying. We spent hours upon hours on the phone just talking. He was a business owner, he was an entrepreneur. We would talk at night and he would pass out for 30 minutes because he was under so many medications. He would come back to and we would talk and talk.
He passed away one day, and a few years later I was driving to Florida to the beach house and I've done it successful at what I've done. I just kind of said, "Man, I'm tired of teaching people how to punch somebody in the nose. There's got to be more." I remember those conversations with Barry because he would say, "You know Matt, I feel like you could do more. If you just took these processes and taught somebody about business, or maybe you talk to a new college graduate and give them some processes, that way they're not learning this 10-15 years into their career, when they could have done better at the beginning." I got down to Florida and I just started ... I pulled out all the notes and pulled out the Glenfiddich and really had a heart to heart with myself.
One of the things that one of my teachers told me one time was, "Only you look in your mirror." I looked in the mirror and I thought, "You know, I can do more than this, and I can help more than just teaching people this over here." A bunch of books were started. That was a couple of years ago. Out of the books that were started, Undo was a bit of a composite of the different books that I'd started at the time. I never really had anything that was a big challenge or obstacle.
I put myself into a lot of challenging situation through the decisions I made in my career. But the biggest obstacle that I really ever overcame was to take what was 20 years of an identity as a world class martial art instructor and developer and teacher, and to have to make that internal switch to saying, "I'm going to do something different. I'm going to do 2016 or 2015 with that year's mindset. Not try to do it with 2010's mindset."
Robert Plank: It's kind of interesting. Could you kind of tell us about, aside from the book, what is it that you do now? Do you have products? Do you have a blog? Do you have a podcast? What are you up to these days?
Matt Powell: A couple of different things. I do security consulting as a day job. I've always kept a day job. I remember my primary teacher a long time ago said, "Always have a day job, because if you have to do your hobby to food on the table, you'll end up hating it, and you'll sell it out and you'll water it down." I've always kept a day job, and I've worked my way up the corporate ladder. Day job I do that. It allows me to go wherever I want. Live how I want. I really built my life around what my goals were, which was to have a very free life to be able to explore and do things. Then you have pastless and you have Pramek.
Pastless.net is the home of Undo. Yeah, you can go to pastless.net. We have the free eBook over at pastless. It's called Open In Case of Life. It's a concept that I've learned over 20 years traveling the world learning from different teachers. It's eight things that people said that really stuck with me. I put them in format that you can just, here it is. In case of you feel like you're not communicating correctly, in case you feel labeled, in case you're feeling anxious about the future, and here's the wisdom behind it. Then you can also pick up Undo over at amazon.com if you just type in Undo, I think it's like the second thing that pops up on amazon.
Then over at Pramek, that's a whole different animal because Pramek is ... It has four books that I've written about it. It has, I think we're at 201 videos on youtube, two dozen for sale instructional, and that's very martial arts, fitness, movement. Yeah, there's movement videos. How to increase your movement, get your range of motion. There's combat intimate videos. There's videos on how to develop habits. We've done a lot of different things with Pramek. That's pramek.com. P-R-A-M-E-K.COM.
Robert Plank: Cool. Do you ... I mean in all your writings and your adventures and talking ... What do you think is the place where everyone is going wrong? Is it that people aren't awake or they're not disciplined or they're not self aware or they're backsliding? What do you see where everyone is going wrong it seems?
Matt Powell: I think, if you're talking about people in general, I think everyone focuses on the what and not the why. That is one of the most ... There's two things that most people do wrong when it comes to achieving success for their life.
The first thing is you have to stop being right. If every time you interact with somebody, you're making assumptions on the way that the interactions going to go, then you're living in the past. Everything that's ever happened in the past is the way that your brain is designed. It's catching up. You want to be right. You want to show them that you're right. You don't really find out what they offer for your future, what they can bring you, how you can work with them ... That if you just stop being right and you start being in the moment and really taking a look at it and thinking about it and changing your anchor point for your thoughts to your future instead of right now or the past, you're going to start viewing people and situations and obstacles or whatever it is as moving you towards somewhere in the future. Then you're going to see how you can use that interaction to get there.
I think the second thing is is that we live in a transactional world. Physically, mentally, spiritually, it's right now, right now, right now. People focus on the what. The what is the thing that you can go and tell your spouse about. The what is the thing that you can go the bar and complain about. But if you focus on the what, then you're just kind of in this linear timeline of a bunch of whats that you failed at. If people take a book like Undo and go through the process to find their failure theme, they're going to find that most of their whats, they never even ... They are forced through a way that they develop their habits over time to consistently fail. You have to start looking at that why. Why did that happen? Why did that happen? Then you can really start to stop the whats from happening.
If you stop being right and look at the interactions that you have as how can they get me somewhere instead of how can I make sure that I'm the person that's coming ahead in this. Also to look at the why you failed through, like I said, a book like Undo instead of what you fail at, you're about 90% of the way to getting more successful than you've ever been.
Robert Plank: I love that message. Not only to stop being right, but to kind of live in the moment. I think that maybe 5-6 years ago someone quoted Dr. Phil to me. There was a situation where I was just kind of, I needed to change my thinking. He quoted Dr. Phil and said, "Would you rather be right or be happy?" Kind of along those lines, with these days with all the ... It's so easy to get distracted. The latest Facebook pop up, the phones blowing up, and even ...
Maybe 14 years ago or so, when I transitioned from high school to college, when there was the orientation day, they kind of had to ... There was something that they said that was along the lines of, "Well, when you're in high school mode, when you're in the high school mindset, you're only really paying attention about 30-30%." And he's like, "Well when you're trying to actually be an adult, being a grown up, you kind of have to be 80% there or higher." That was just kind of like all the things you've been talking about today. All these really simple concepts, but it's so simple and yet it seems like a lot of people are missing the boat and kind of need to readjust, right?
Matt Powell: I think that there's so many options out there, there's so many things that people ... I'm going to try Tony Robbins stuff for a little while. Oh, I didn't get to where I wanted to go, I'm going to go visit Zigler. Oh, didn't get there. I'm going to go to Tim Ferris. Oh, I didn't get it there ... That people are just constantly moving. I tell people if you really want to live in the now, and find out how far off you are from being in the now, take 30 minutes a day, get a book, and read it aloud.
What you'll find is that your brain is so all over the place, that you can barely read aloud. If you go to a zoo, if you go to a museum, you'll find that you don't even read the placards. You kind of skip around real quick and then you look back up because we just don't have attention spans anymore. We're taking in too much information and if you start to ...
That's what we found in martial art is that if I want to something, if I have one thing and that's the only thing that I'm going to try to do, and you have ten things that you're going to try to do, I'm going to win 90% of the time because I'm always focused on one thing. A lot of it is just kind of bringing it back to these useful skills of picking up a book and reading aloud. If you're in your office at work, and you need to read a report, close the door and read it aloud. Train your mind.
Meditation is great. I've been doing meditation for 20 years. I've done it all over the world. You can't sit in the office and meditate all day. What you can do is is you can focus the brain on things like reading aloud. You'll find that you start to, okay there's a whole lot going on in my mind right now. Let me just focus on this. Your communication skills get better. Your memory retention gets better. Your voice annunciation gets better. All by reading aloud. These are the types of little things that we found in the martial arts that we bring over. Then we teach people how to work under stress and duress, but reading aloud is one of them.
If I take somebody and I make you go out and I make you run and sprint and do everything as hard as you can, and I bring you back and your heart rate is really elevated and I make you read aloud, you'll be amazed how much that duplicates what happens in public speaking. You can train yourself for public speaking by reading aloud when you exercise. It's all about just focusing the mind, focusing on the why, not the what. Focusing on being in the moment, not trying to get ahead and assume the conversation. It's just that little bit of focus that ... Just something as simple ... Getting Undo and reading the whole book aloud and you'll find after a little bit of time, you've changed in a lot of ways.
Robert Plank: That's pretty cool. I love that messaged I think that I'm going to be doing that today. I'll read aloud. I hereby promise to you, Matt Powell, that at some point today I will read aloud 30 minutes to find out what all the fuss is about and to regain my focus and kind of reset and stuff.
Great. I like all the things that you have to share today. Not only just the ideas, but also just kind of these little exercises, these little step by step things. I think I mentioned earlier that there's a lot of self help mindset stuff out there that's just ideas, right? Just clutter, just more stuff to kind of gum up the gears, right? Kind of like you were saying a few minutes ago that a lot of people just kind of dabble and sample and just kind of get a little taste of all these little things, but they're kind of become a jack of all trades, master of none.
I really like all the stuff that you had to share with us today, and I think that as you were talking, I was kind of thinking to myself, "Well, all these ideas but how do I get more focused," so perfect. Little 30 minutes of reading something aloud. Could you tell us one more time to make sure that everyone knows where to find out about you, where to find your book, where to find your website, just one more time for us.
Matt Powell: You can go over to pastless.net. There you can get a free book, you can also get the link over to amazon. If you're on amazon once a day like everybody else is and you're a prime member, then just type in Undo. You'll find the book. If you're amazon prime, you can pick it up for $2.99. If you're not amazon prime, you can get the paperback or the ecopy. Both of them are under $10.
You can always hit me up if you're on Facebook. It's Facebook.com/iammattpowell. Instagram is the same thing. On Instagram it's iammattpowell. And twitter, iammattpowell. All of them are the same. Just remember iammattpowell for social media. I do my best to communicate through email or whatever. If people have questions about the book, if people have general questions about anything they want to contact me about, you can go to pastless.net or you can go to social media, and I'm definitely there to help out anybody that needs a little bit of a boost.
Robert Plank: It seems like we all need that. Maybe not everyday, but we all get to the point where we need a little bit of help. Cool. Thanks, Matt, for stopping by the show and sharing what it is you have to share. I appreciate you and I appreciate everything that you have to say. Thanks again for stopping by.
Matt Powell: Hey I really appreciate it. Thank you so much. You've got a great show.
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129: Book Launch Strategies and Self-Publishing with Angela Ford
Angela Ford tells us about online marketing and social media, and how she was able to use those skills to self-publishing market her fiction novels using Instagram, Facebook groups, contests, book tours, and more.
What really makes me unique here is that even though I do a lot of the digital marketing, I actually write fantasy novels. That's my huge passion project. That's a little strange, a little different there. It's a lot of fun for me. Then, what I get to do is not only promote those, but also promote my business. I do a lot with digital marketing. I work with a lot of creative entrepreneurs who have their own websites, their own blogs. Some of them actually sell products. Some of them do more of the courses and services. It really depends there. It's a fun way to work together to really strategize, be creative, and figure out, "Okay. What can I do today to get visible online, to get more clients, send people back to my website, and build that traffic, and build up a reputation on social media?"
Robert Plank: That's cool. I especially like that you have your fantasy novel as your hobby, but isn't it cool if the hobby we have makes us some money, too, right?
Angela Ford: Oh. Absolutely. I firmly believe that with what the entrepreneurial lifestyle, we all want to do a lot of different things. We're not just in it for one thing, like you just don't do a podcast, and that's it. I don't just do digital marketing for other people, and that's it. We all have different passions and different things that we're doing in our lives. Regardless of whether or not it's making money, but it's a huge plus and a huge bonus if it is.
Robert Plank: Right. All right. As far as that goes, like as far as the social media especially Twitter and stuff like that, do you think that there is a dark side to some of the social media? Especially with the, you know, a lot of people putting in a lot of time, not getting a lot of traction, or some of the bots and the spam stuff and going down a rabbit hole. Do you see people using social media in the wrong way?
Angela Ford: Oh, for sure. It's so funny that you say that, because every now and then I will get on Instagram or I'll get on Twitter, and I'll see a bunch of posts. I'm like, "Oh no. The marketers have come to down. They're ruining this social media platform, because they're really gungho promoting their next webinar, their next course, or they just have a ton of quotes there." It can be kind of frustrating. It takes away some of that real human connection when you get all of the spams and the bots coming in. Then, all of the posts that are really hardcore promotional. There definitely is that side, and it really isn't about promoting, promoting, promoting. The whole point of social media is to be social and to share authentically who you are, yourself, even if you're focused on one topic. That's one thing that I find frustrating is a lot of the promotion, and the fact that it's all based on services and products, and not necessarily on, like "I am an individual. Today, I'm at the beach." End of story.
Robert Plank: With all that, with all the marketers coming in an ruining everything, is there an answer? Is there a way to defeat all that?
Angela Ford: Oh, absolutely. There's a fine line between just pushing products and services, and then between pushing your lifestyle as an entrepreneur and what you do as an entrepreneur. I think Instagram is actually a fun way to show, because it's very focused on visuals, so there's really not a good way for a lot of marketers to come in and really promote their products and services. They can do it, but there's not a great way to do it. What I love about Instagram, particularly, is it's all focused on lifestyle and beautiful photos. You can really just take a picture of what you're doing today, and say "Hey. Today, I'm working from this coffee shop. I'm doing this, and I'm being productive. These are the three things that really help me. Share what you're doing today and tag me in the photo."
It starts a conversation going back and forth between people, and that's really what social media is about with getting that conversation started. Not just making it a one way conversation, but going back and forth sharing what you're doing, maybe some of the tips and tactics that you have. Then, asking people and inviting them to the conversation. Asking a question at the end. That's huge.
Robert Plank: As opposed to just being the spam route and being the machine gun, right?
Angela Ford: Exactly. As opposed to just saying, "Hey. My webinar is on tomorrow at eleven. Come join. Sign up. Here's the link."
Robert Plank: I mean, if we do have that webinar, if we do have something to sell, what's the attack plan, I guess? Is it kind of like more of a long game, where you kind of put little tidbits in, or ... I guess I'm trying to figure out is there a way to actually sell something on social media and not be a jerk about it, but also get some traffic using one of those platforms?
Angela Ford: Yeah. For sure. For sure. If there's a good way to do it on all social media platforms as a matter of fact, but first of all, you have to build a reputation and make sure what you're offering is of value to others, that you're being authentic, that you're establishing that two way conversation by asking questions, getting involved with others, and then when you do have something, when you do have that webinar, that new book that's out, when you do make that announcement people are going to be much more excited about it, because you've taken an interest in their lives. Now, they're your fans. They're interested in what you're doing. When you have something come out, they're all excited, and they're ready to sign up, join, and help promote it. It really is a long game. It's value first, then sells later. You can even put that down as the 80/20 rule. 80% just being helpful, valuable, and authentic, and 20% actually selling and promoting.
Robert Plank: Interesting. Once you have them hooked, then it's time to actually send them to a link or something like that.
Angela Ford: Absolutely. It's the same thing with new friendships. When you dive into a new friendship or making friends with people, you don't necessarily ask them for a favor first. You get to know them. You figure out what makes them tick. Then, later on when you do have a favor to ask, they're more than happy. They're like, "Oh. Of course. We've been friends forever. Let's do this."
Robert Plank: Cool. Yeah. You've been friends for like six months or three months or something, it's like, "Okay. Now that I've given you just overwhelming value. I've given you so much more than I'm asking, even though it's delivered over this huge period of time. Now, it's like I've given you a hundred times, and I'm only asking for ten back." Right?
Angela Ford: Yes. Yup. Yeah.
Robert Plank: Cool. You mentioned a few minutes ago about your fantasy novels, and I don't know lately I've just been looking for some interesting stories and stuff that's not the usual norm. Can you tell us about your ... I mean, feel free. Go in to whatever kind of detail, but I mean could you tell us about your fantasy novels? How that came to be? How you used your marketing skill in this new frontier, I guess, for you?
Angela Ford: Yeah. Absolutely. I first started writing when I was like ten, eleven, or twelve. I used to journal every single day. I have four sisters, and they're all very imaginative and creative. We made up all sorts of stories and games when we were younger and playing together. After awhile, I started writing those down and turning them to stories. My thinking was that I wanted to create this world was similar to earth and similar to the humans in earth, but was completely different. It's not even in the same galaxy. It's this whole other world that I created.
There's four different worlds, which is why it's called The Four Worlds series. They're all on the same planet. There are different adventures that take place throughout each of the worlds. Each of the books focuses on one of those worlds. The first book that's out, The Five Warriors, is about the western world. One of the things that I really wanted to do was be different than other fantasy authors. A lot of fantasy authors, they incorporate different mythical beasts inside their stories. They have the dragons, the wizards, the elves, and the goblins. Very distinct good and bad creatures. One of the things I didn't want was I didn't want to have any of those creatures. I also didn't want to have any humans in the story.
Robert Plank: Interesting.
Angela Ford: It's all very brand new. There are no human. There are no dragons. There are no wizards. There are things that are very similar to it. I just call them by different names. Now, I first wrote the stories when I was a teenager, and now I'm rewriting all of them to make them actually be good. The plot was ... It wasn't that great to be honest. I started rewriting those. One of the big things I wanted to focus on was diversity. Each of my books, I have four core people groups. They are all very distinct and very different. There's the group of people that are very curious. They just like to go on adventures. They often get into trouble, because they are way to curious for their own good. Then, there are people that just like to live in forests and that's it. They have their own secrets. They are very in tune with nature and the forests. There's also the people group that they just want to farm and stay at home. Eat, drink, and be married, and have lots of children. Have their rich lives just staying at home. The last people group, they really love high elevations, mountains, and that's where they'll be found. Up above everyone else.
In the first book, these four people groups they actually come together, and it's just a very interesting blend seeing how diverse they are and how distinct they are, their cultures, and their backgrounds. Then, how that blends together when they come together. It actually has the message that, "We're stronger together when we do come together to do these different things, whether it's saving the world or going off on another adventure. That's really one of the things I wanted to focus and highlight in my books that being different is a good thing, but we can all work together.
Robert Plank: The whole thing is cool. I especially like that you kind of took the, I don't know, the raw creativity, the spark, or whatever you want to called it, the stuff from childhood, then come up with all these new ideas. Then, you kind of put it into a box, refined it, and made it something that actually makes sense, a good plot, and good characters, and stuff like that. I think that's really cool, especially because like we've been talking for the last few minutes about how it's uncool to sell a product. It's uncool to sell coaching, but then on the internet there's so many ways to make money. I really like the idea of just publishing whatever, and then selling so many copies of that, that becomes a full time income. This series of books and things like that, is this on Kindle, CreateSpace, and all that?
Angela Ford: Absolutely. It's on Amazon, Barnes & Nobles, Books-A-Million. The Five Warriors is the name of the book. Yeah. It's available. It's also in the Kindle unlimited program, which is fantastic both for authors and for readers. Readers, if they're a part of the program, they can read the book for free. Then, on the author's side, I actually get paid for every page that people are reading. That's exciting. It's pure entertainment. It's relatable in a way. It is another great way to talk about something fun that's different than saying, "Okay. This book is going to help you with your business. It's going to show you how to get more traffic." It's none of those things. It's just going to be something entertaining that you could read. That's also fun to promote.
Robert Plank: Well, yeah. If people like, you have your fans, and it's fun promoting it, I mean, what's the harm in that? Could you walk us through the process of ... Okay. Once the books are done, and they're published, what are the steps you personally take to then sell a bunch of copies?
Angela Ford: Yeah, that's actually a lot of fun. I'm really big into doing a whole book launch strategy. What I like to do after the book is done, and it's gone off to the editor, and I'm done with my part of writing it out and I really just need to do some final edits, at that point, that's when I like to sit down and strategize my book launch strategy and decide what I'm going to do. When's the book going to come out? I'm going to do an actual book launch party in my city. I'm going to do a virtual book launch, which for the first book I am going to do both of those. I also did several different contests and giveaways. Just to get people involved. I gave away an Amazon gift card, a Starbucks gift card, and then a couple months after the book came out I started giving away copies of the book just to stir up some action and getting you audience to pay attention to it. I also did a lot of promoting online.
Initially, with Facebook and in different Facebook groups just talking to people about books and self publishing. Anytime someone would say, "Oh. You know, I'm looking for a new book to read. I'm looking for something fiction related." I could just drop in a link, and say "Oh. Well, I just finished writing this book. It's fantasy. It's entertainment. It will be something relaxing to read, just to calm your brain after you've been doing all this work." Just tell them about it. I actually had a lot of people that I had conversations with online, go and purchase the book immediately, just because we had a conversation about books. That happened on both Facebook and Twitter.
Then, on Instagram that just kind of fell into my lap. Once I got actual copies of the book, because I worked with a professional designer the book cover is absolutely gorgeous. I was really excited, so I posted a picture online, and said something like, "just got in my copies of my book. Here's what it looks like. I'm really excited." Just to talk about it and get some momentum going. People started commenting, liking it, talking about the book cover and how beautiful it was. They just got really excited about it. I remember thinking, "Every time I post on Instagram about the book, I got the biggest engagement that I ever had." I was like, "Oh. People really like this." Then, all of a sudden book bloggers started reaching out. They started asking me to have a copy to read and review or promote on Twitter to all of their followers. I started doing that as well. That just took care of itself. That was a huge way to start bringing in new eyes to the book.
Then, one of the other things that I also did was a couple of the free e-book giveaways. Amazon allows you to give away your book every three months for free. You can make it free for five days. I did a couple of those and promoted them on different sites, like Freebooksy. They have daily emails that go out announcing the books that are discounted are free. They have an enormous email list. Some of them have over a hundred thousands, two hundred thousand people in those email lists. When they send it out and say, "Hey. This book is free for five days." There were tons of people that download it. That also helps with the sales ranking and the visibility for it as well.
Then, one of the things that really helped reach a new audience and also the visibility of the book was going on book tours. I actually did a book tour for an entire month. That was fantastic, because different publishers and book bloggers did a blog post on the book. There was one that went live every week. Sometimes there were three that went live during a week. That was another way to tap into their audience and get other people excited about it, talking about it. There was also a giveaway that went along with that. That helped also. Giveaways are just huge for bringing in more people. That was fantastic.
I would have to say, probably, the number one thing that really helped the book sales was the reviews. I had a couple of copies that I sent out to people before the book was officially published. When it went like on Amazon, I sent an email to everyone that read it before it went like, and asked them to just leave a review. It could be a sentence, just a couple words, nothing huge or super long. Just some short sentences about what they thought about the book. That really did it. People go online, and they read the reviews. They see all of these positive reviews, that sells itself. Those are definitely a few steps I would highly recommend for anyone who has a book coming out to take advantage of in order to get the word out, reach a new market, and start those book sales.
Robert Plank: Awesome. It just sounds like what's cool about these marketing strategies that you have, especially the social media stuff, is that it sounds like it applies to anything. The low hanging fruit are the obvious choices. You say, "I'm going to sell my membership course or I'm going to sell whatever." I really like that even when you choose to do something totally out of left field, you choose to take these childhood stories and put them on Amazon.
You still use the same strategies that you learned about using Instagram for this. I also like that ... It sounds like, am I right in this? That a lot of the social media stuff, it seems like a lot of it's about the consistent daily actions, like you post every day, you log in everyday, you respond every day to build up the stuff that pays off six months or a year later. Then, another thing about that other than the daily action and stuff like that, another thing is you build up this whole following, and it's just about being real and trying crazy stuff. Is that about right? It's about really stuff and doing something every day or maybe a lot of things every day?
Angela Ford: Yes. That's so true, because I've seen when I'm consistent when I post with social media, then my followers know that I'm there. They know that I'm interested in them, and they just keep coming back. They keep commenting, because they know I'm going to reply to every single comment at some point. It really is all about that. The strategies for launching, it's the same strategy. It's just different tactics. Just different little things you do, just depending on what kind of product you have. Then, how you're targeting your audience. It's fantastic. Once you have the strategy down, it's very easy to plan different tactics. Some things can be executed within a day. I've had different ideas come up, like one I was like, "Oh. I should create a quiz for my readers, so they can figure out which one of the warriors they're most like. When they're reading the book, they can say 'oh. I'm most like this person, because I got that on the quiz.'" That took me a few hours to execute and put up. Then, tell people about it. There are just fun little things that would come to mind throughout the whole process.
Robert Plank: I love it. I think what's cool about you and I both as marketers is, we have an idea and we can put it in action the same date. Whereas, someone else who's just kind of figuring it out on their own, they might take months just to make one little quiz in there. I think it's really cool. It's almost like you're Superman on the home planet of Superman. You're kind of like everyone else, but you go to Earth and suddenly you can do all kinds of crazy things, right?
Angela Ford: Yes. That's one of the best parts about being a marketer is all the different creative ideals you can come up with, the things you can do, and the risk you can take as well. A lot of times I've found that those risks really do pay off. It's like, "Oh. I'm going to do something crazy, but hey it worked out."
Robert Plank: I mean, I'm looking at your, The Five Warriors book, and a couple of your books on Amazon, so did you ever think to do a pen name to market as some other identity as opposed to your marketing brand?
Angela Ford: I did. I really thought about that, because I wasn't sure if I should say that I was A.J. Ford or just Angela Ford. I ended up going with Angela J. Ford, because I did a search online for people that have the same name that I did. Whew. Their names were coming up first, and I was like, "Well, okay." There's another Angela Ford that writes romance novels, so her name comes up a lot during searches. I'm like, "Well, I really have to make sure I'm distinct, and I stand out." Also, one of my big things is I wanted my name on the book to be the same as my marketing name as well. It's more of a lifestyle. More of a lifestyle entrepreneur, so whenever I do decide to change my focus or pivot I just want to be able to keep that same name even if I do end up changing my focus.
Robert Plank: Because you spent however many decades already just creating all of this content under this one name, why start from scratch, right?
Angela Ford: Yes. Yes.
Robert Plank: Well, cool. Can you show us how this all ties together? I know that we talked a lot about your fiction books and things like that, what do you do as a marketer? What kind of services do you provide? What kind of products do you have for someone who's looking to grow their business?
Angela Ford: Yeah. One of the big things I do is strategy. It's the online marketing strategy. Again, it's very similar whether you have just a blog, you do services, or you have products like books and courses. The strategy is all the same. I really focus on that and narrowing it down to the targets and the goals and what actually is the desired outcome. I love the strategy. I love focusing in on that. Sometimes with the strategy I love getting down to the nitty gritty. Even telling people, "Okay. These are the hashtags you should use, because they will get you the most visibility." Fun things like that. I also do some one off coaching. Some people just want to spend an hour talking through and brainstorming ideas, so I do that as well.
Then, more of the hands on work that I do really is the website set-up. I do build websites. I built mine, and then I built the one for my book as well and all of my book's sale pages which are a lot of fun. Sometimes getting in to the back end and the layouts that changes be so much. I've done it so often that it's easy to do. I can just fly through that. Most of the time, I can get a website up in a couple of weeks. It's not a huge deal. I do that for other people as well just so they can get it up. They can take it from there, they just need some help with the foundation and laying that out.
Then, finally, I do some social media marketing as needed for people. Just help them really take off and figure out what they're doing with social media, and how to make it more about building a relationship and focusing on that long term versus selling, promoting, and just doing that.
Those are really the core services. They all tie in, because I'm not only doing the marketing part, I'm also executing it on my end with my novels. That's really fun, so I have both the strategy part, the execution, and drilling down to the actual tactics that work.
Robert Plank: I love it. I like that, it's cool, most of what you and I were able to talk about was about something that was non-marketing related in that the niche was not about how to make more money, how to improve conversion rates on your website. You still used all those same tried and true marketing tactics in an area where you kind of have fun, and you can kind of be unique and have your personality. I love all of that kind of stuff.
Angela Ford: Yes.
Robert Plank: I don't know. It's one of those things where it's like all right, you have your marketing, you have your websites, and that's okay, but what about your hobbies, right? What about something new, interesting, exciting, and unique and stuff like that. I just love that you're able to take all of the usual marketing tactics and use it for something that what started as a hobby as a kid, but has turned into a new income stream for you. That's pretty cool, I think.
Angela Ford: Yeah. Thanks so much. I mean, that really is my mission. I want to do more work that I love doing. I want to write more novels. My mission is, well, with the marketing that actually pays the bills, so I want to help people figure out how they can spend more time doing work that they love. That really is my mission.
Robert Plank: Awesome. If someone is looking for that kind of thing, if they have an existing business or an up and coming business, and they want to find you, hire you, or somehow learn from you to make things better, where can they find out about you, your books, and all the cool things that you do?
Angela Ford: Yeah. Come across to AngelaJFord.com. That is my website. Then, you can also find me on Instagram and Twitter. My handle is AFord21. I'm on there all the time. I respond a little fast, but yeah. I love to chat.
Robert Plank: Cool. All right. Angela J. Ford. Thanks, Angela, for coming on the show, and talking about all this whole slew of these cool avenues to take. Either, if you have something that can help businesses, that's cool. Even something as crazy as you have these ideas for these fantasy novels. The internet is so amazing these days that any idea you have, anything that you want to do, there's some way to get it out there. I love that. Not just with social media and the self publishing, but there's so many ways to have all these irons in the fire. Thanks for coming on. Thanks for sharing about all that. AngelaJFord.com is the place to go. Thanks for sharing all your knowledge and everything you have to share with us about Instagram, social media, book launching, all that stuff.
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128: Differentiate, Entertain and Educate with Authority Marketer Jeff Beale
Mr. Marketology Jeff Beale can teach you to become an authority using the four C's: Content, Contacts, Communication, and Consistency. He tells us how to identify and understand our audience, optimize for social media, sell based on emotional triggers, and differentiate yourself from the crowd.
Jeff Beale: Things are going well. Thanks for having me on the show, Robert.
Robert Plank: I'm really glad that you're on. The stuff that you do, you help people gain authority status and do authority marketing, so what does that entail exactly?
Jeff Beale: Marketing basically in a layman's term is to become the go-to person in any product or service. Authority marketing is when somebody's hungry right on the street, they think of McDonald's, because, hey, McDonald's is an authority. When you're thirsty, you think of Coca-Cola, because Coca-Cola is an authority. Things of that nature. Becoming that authority no matter which industry it's in helps you leverage your credibility. It also helps you generate business based off the fact that whenever people think of what you offer or that industry, they think of you.
It's just the process of building that credibility, building that brand awareness so whenever they think of that, you're the first person that comes to mind, and usually the first person that comes to mind will be the one that gets the business unless you do something to mess it up.
Robert Plank: How does someone become an authority? Is it a matter of having a book or a blog, traffic, or social media or some combination? What does someone have to do exactly?
Jeff Beale: It's a combination. Actually, the first thing you would need to do is to first identify your audience. Know exactly who your audience is and then their needs, and then the last piece would be to find out where do they go to get information. Identify, let's say your audience. A lot of people like to identify their audience such as, well, they are this age, this gender, this ethnic group. I'm talking more of the psychological. For instance, let's go back to McDonald's. McDonald's serve people that are hungry. Coca-Cola serve people that are thirsty. It can get as basic as that, but you need to really know your audience, then understand their needs.
What is it that pains them, keeps them up at night, makes them pull the action trigger to do business with somebody? Once you understand that, then you can find out where do they go most often to find out who they want to do business with? What's the authority? Is it a magazine? A lot of people used to do the old traditional marketing, push marketing, on television and radio or a magazine. Nowadays, like you said, there's social media, there's bloggers, there's sites like Yo. There's tons of places that they go to to find out who is the best choice for what they are looking for.
Once you find that out, then it's all about quality content. It's all about putting out the best quality information for them to make an informed decision. That can be several ways. That can be social media posts. That can be blog posts. That can be what we're doing right now, podcasting is a great way of doing that. It can be videos. It can be many different things that you could put out as far as content, the type of content, but you find out what resonates the most around your audience and you deliver your actual content in a way that they easily digest it, they can get the information, they can make an informed decision, and they feel comfortable doing so.
Robert Plank: That all sounds like a pretty good plan, and that makes a lot of sense to me. How does this relate to what it is that you do? Is this a service you provide to others?
Jeff Beale: I do. Actually, I provide marketing strategies. With marketing strategies, my goal is to make you the authority in the industry, to make the brand awareness resonate amongst your audience. What I do is I look at putting together a strategy that makes sense for your company and finding out your audience, the need, your benefits, what's a good message for the audience and how to deliver it, what mediums and channels and platforms make the most sense, and then of course piecing it all together, putting it into a strategy that gets you in front of them in a way that they desire to see you, and help you deliver a message that they actually want to hear.
A lot of times, that's something that the business or business owners have difficulty doing because they're so close to the business that they assume a lot. First thing I tell companies, I tell the executives, "You are not your customer," because in most cases, you're not. In most cases, you don't buy what you're selling, and you're so informed because you started the company or you've been working in the business for so long, you have little things that you assume that you don't even think is a challenge or think is a point of decision that really is.
You might, for instance, for you doing podcasts, one thing that you may think of is, well, "Everybody uses Skype to record," but that's not true. To someone else, that might be something very, very difficult to understand. "How do I record? I understand how to sign up for Skype, but how do I actually record?" To you, it's easy. If you were selling, let's say, a course on how to podcast, you would just assume they knew, and you wouldn't even put that in your message, which that might be one of the biggest selling points of, "Let me show you a way that you can record with Skype in 5 minutes." That might be something that will make somebody pull the trigger, because they're like, "Oh wow. I can just 1, 2, 3, and do it. Great. I'm on," versus, "Let me show you the best way and I've been doing this for a hundred years."
"Yeah, okay, but I haven't, and I don't know what I'm doing. I just want it easy," and easy is the selling point, not the technology. It's just the ease of use.
Robert Plank: Right, and it seems like if you position it as ease of use, that's more relatable as opposed to if you just show, "Well, look how cool I am," then you're just showing off. You mention that little example about the podcasting and Skype. Even with that kind of thinking, some people don't even know how to install Skype or where to install Skype, even how to install the iTunes program to check on their podcast. They don't know what hardware they use to record. Yeah, that's huge and I totally agree with all that.
Kind of along those lines, I know you mentioned a lot of the things that you do when you're looking to improve someone else's business, do you have like a story or an example of a case study where you had a client and there were some things in their business that could use improving, and you kind of put them through your process, you went through and you found the best market, you figured out their customer, and you figured out what kind of things they should be doing?
Jeff Beale: Sure. One example that I found was a client that sold jewelry. They thought their audience was one thing, and come to find out, the audience was totally different based off of buyers, based off of research on who interacted with them. The interesting thing is, offline their audience was one thing, on-line their audience was totally different. They were taking the offline approach to an on-line audience, and that doesn't work.
Offline, you don't have things such as comments, likes, shares. Offline, you see it on TV, radio, and you are at the mercy of the television or radio. On-line, you can make choices and you can change and you can share your opinion, and that makes a big difference. After looking at it and finding out that you might even want to look at a different way of approaching it, more of an interactive approach was developed to help them.
Same thing with a client that I worked with that did media. One of the things that they did were, they were looking for how can they have more people engage with their shows? The key factor was they were looking at the old way to where ... Remember when you used to come in in prime time and you had to wait for prime time to watch a show?
Robert Plank: Oh yeah.
Jeff Beale: You would actually schedule your day around it. Well, that's not the audience of today. Today everybody's on demand, and most people aren't watching it on television, they're watching it on a mobile device, and they may cast it to a larger monitor, which is the television, but they're looking on the go when they want to watch the shows. Nowadays, shows are even coming out before they're supposed to air. Like a show may be airing tonight, but if you subscribe to a cable provider, you can watch it midnight the night of, or you can watch it even a day before, and Hulu and Netflix have shown you how people love the fact that they can watch any show whenever they feel like watching it.
Looking at that and changing the approach on how to deliver these shows helped them change from a linear to a digital age, and it really helped improve them all the way across the board: viewership, search engine optimization, to search engine ranking, lowered their spend, and it helped because now that you know your audience, you're not fighting to find as many new audience as you are retaining old audience and having them evangelize the experience. Then that gets you new audience.
That's one of the challenges I found with many companies. They're so focused on finding new audience that they neglect the current audience, and then they spend additional money in reputation management, damage control. You have a cellphone, I'm assuming.
Robert Plank: Yes.
Jeff Beale: Like everyone. I use it as a cellphone theory. How many times have you seen commercials or heard of people that have plans that aren't available to you as a loyal customer? Then you call them and they say, "Well, that doesn't apply to you because you're already in a contract," or "You're already a customer." You're like, "Well, I'm a loyal customer. Why can't I get the discount that the new people get?" Well, that's the challenge is, they're always fighting to find new, new, new, and not trying to retain who they have. The interesting part about retaining current customers, first of all, they're easier, because they're already experiencing your brand and your product or service.
Second of all, they are, if happy, ready to tell somebody, if they're happy. They're ready to tell somebody if they're not, but you can leverage that to not only have them share the message but also get feedback from them to help improve what you have already. Improve either the marketing message, either the product or service, the customer service.
You can improve things because they're already dealing with you, and if you just look at your last, let's say, 5, 6 customers if you're smaller, or if you look at your last 2, 3 months of customers and you look at what their actions are, what their engagements are, what are their questions? What are the things they complain about? What are the things that they share? What are the things that they like? Then compile that information and make some marketing decisions based off of that, it's easier to find like-minded people than to just spend a lot of money on campaigns, and you're spending all this money on campaigns, throwing it out, seeing what sticks.
Once it sticks, if you're still not doing this type of backend research, you still don't know what to do next because you're still just throwing out stuff because you're not figuring out what worked, how can we now duplicate what worked and keep that going on and on?
That's one of the things that I always say. When you're doing authority marketing, it's all about being the 4 C's. It's all about having good content, making good contacts, have good communication, and then be consistent. That's the 4 C's. If you do those 4 C's, you will win when it comes to authority marketing.
Robert Plank: That's really cool. I think that's one of those things where it took me a while to kind of get it, especially seeing what a lot of these companies were doing, especially like the ones on social media where ... At first I thought, "Okay, well it's like this company, and they're just posting stuff on social media every now and then," but then when I've seen ... There's like a cupcake ... I don't know what you'd call it, the kind of person that bakes and sells cupcakes, there's this cupcake lady in our town, and she'll post pictures, and she'll do contests, and even the local news, they'll put full-on clips of their show just right there on Facebook, and I'm thinking, kind of like a little bit as you were describing what you were describing, I'm thinking, "Man, why would they put like a clip of their show right there on Facebook when ... ?"
I'm thinking, "Well, wouldn't them posting a clip take away from me watching their show?" And kind of the way you were explaining it, it's like, "Well, hardly anyone's watching on the TV live anyway, so it's kind of like a trade-off. They're giving away some of their best stuff in exchange, not only are they hoping it'll go viral or get some shares but, as you said, now they can look at the most popular content, or they can look at all of their audience, their likes, their fan page insights, all that stuff and figure out exactly who they're talking to, when it sounds like this out-of-date model that a lot of these companies are still hanging onto was just guessing. It was just let's just put out some stuff. Maybe the ad money worked, maybe not. Now you can go back and after running your experiments, go back and see how they did. Is that right?
Jeff Beale: That's correct. Also, with them putting the show on-line, it helps them separate themselves from their competitors because, think about this. If you had 2 cupcake bakers, I guess you would call it, or 2 cupcake stores in the same area, 1 has a show and 1 doesn't, how much advantage do you have when you say, "Well, you know, they may bake cupcakes and they may be good, I don't know, but we have a show, and you can see us bake our cupcakes, and people like our show."
Now you seem as if you are really an expert. Even if you're not, even if you have quick mix or something, you just seem, because people are like, "Well, they have to be good. They have a show." That gives you an advantage. Also, within the show, you can let them get to know you a little bit, and that's the beauty nowadays with social media, with Facebook Live and You Tube Live and all these other streaming, they can get to know you now.
You know the old saying in sales: People buy from who they know, like, and trust. They get to now know you. They get to see you enough to like you, and because you're up there in a credible source, they get to trust you versus an advertisement, which is cold. I don't know the last time you fell in love with a banner ad where you're like, "That banner ad made me feel all warm inside."
Robert Plank: Never.
Jeff Beale: Exactly. Now with the personality being displayed, you can have that feeling. So you say, "I really like that person." That's how it works.
Robert Plank: What you're saying is there's hope for the rest of us. We don't have to be super polished and rehearsed. We can just be ourselves and they'll fall in love with us as us.
Jeff Beale: That's the key, being yourself. The interesting thing with on-line especially, offline is still more polished and better, but on-line is the more authentic you are, the better. People don't mind the mistakes. It should be as good of quality as you can get it, but it doesn't have to be polished, because sometimes when it's too polished, they think it's paid actors and they don't think it's real. They think, "Oh well, they paid for that. It's advertisement. Of course, they're going to say it's great because they were paid to say it's great." When it's a person and it seems authentic and it seems as if you're just everyday Joe, now it's something that's relatable.
If you noticed over the past few years, what's the biggest craze on television? Reality TV. Reality TV is because it makes you feel as if you know somebody, even though working in that industry, I can tell you it's scripted, and it's all planned and so forth, and they know what to say next, so forth and so on, but you think it's real, and it feels real even though it's not. They do that to make it more personal. That's the beauty of now on-line, you can do things and it doesn't have to be 100% professionally polished, and people will resonate.
That's why You Tube videos can go into the millions, and it's some little kid dancing. Of course, I don't know if you can be able to sell anything with it unless it's a choreography or something of that nature, but people are like, "I just like it. It was so cool," and they share it, but when's the last time they've shared a polished commercial? They don't.
Robert Plank: Never, unless it's really funny.
Jeff Beale: Unless it's really funny. Yeah. I think the only ... The one I remember, the latest one I remember that was shared that was viral was the Van Damme when he was straddling those 2 tractor trailers.
Robert Plank: I think like every now and then there's something like a Dollar Shave Club commercial or something, but very rarely.
Jeff Beale: See, but they've figured it out, though. They figured out that men ... They don't really key in on the quality of the razor, if you think about it. They figured out that the humor will get people to share it. The mass volume of numbers will get in front of enough men, and those men will look at the deal and say, "You know what? That's a good deal, because I'm already spending X amount of dollars," and it stays in your head because you think of the entertainment of the actual commercial.
Those type of things do work, but most companies don't execute it in that way. Most companies execute it in the same way that they would a television advertisement, and it doesn't go viral because people are like, "Oh, it's another commercial." That's the reason the Internet has been so successful when it comes to video, and you look at any other type of source like Sirius Radio, any type of streaming source, what is the biggest thing that they harp on? "We don't show commercials." People don't want to see commercials. That's why.
Robert Plank: That's a pretty big insight right there. I think that that's why people need you to kind of clean up the marketing efforts, right?
Jeff Beale: Yeah, and the best thing about a commercial, people love a commercial that they don't even know is a commercial. Like I said, the Dollar Shaving Club, yeah, we know it's a commercial, but they don't say how great their razors are. They don't say anything about that. They don't say anything about, "We have been in the business with titanium and platinum," they just have fun, and people like that in the entertainment. If your commercial can entertain and educate, then you can win. You just figure out how can your commercial entertain and educate?
I was telling one client about floors. Well, when a person is looking to buy new flooring, the biggest thing on their mind besides cost, and they'll be willing to pay more if you can get the other values in line. They want it to be fast with installation, they want it to be painless with dealing with your business, and they want other people to say, "Wow! You've got the best floors ever!" Of course, resale value helps, if they can improve the resale value.
Most people don't really care about the type of quality of the wood, and they don't care about this is cherry oak versus ... They don't know and they really don't care. They just want when people walk in the door saying, "That is beautiful." Now, what I told them is, a lot of things they'll have questions about, you can put into some sort of advertisement or social post in which you're explaining to them some of the myths of floors. For instance, they may say your floor is water resistant. Being water resistant doesn't mean it's waterproof. If enough water gets on it, it's still going to damage the floor, and that's not what's told when it's sold to you, but that's what it is. It's not waterproof, just water resistant.
You could spill a glass of water and don't worry about it, but if you have a water leak, you'll still have to replace that floor. Those type of things make a person feel as if you know what you're talking about, because a lot of other people aren't going to tell them that. They may also know what's the difference between hardwood and laminate. Your knowing that difference and the difference of how you lay it to make your house look larger, and you have examples to show them, now make you a very credible source when it comes to dealing with somebody with the floor.
The last thing, most people when they get floors, especially when it comes to floor damage, they go through their insurance company. What are the 5 things you need to know when you talk to your insurance company? Because most people want the best value for what they're going to claim, so they're not going to want to be cheap, but they're not going to want to have to come out-of-pocket either. That's why they have insurance. You letting them know how to deal with your insurance company, the right answers to the right questions, this type of thing makes it easier to deal with you than other flooring companies that might just come in and give an estimate and say, "All right, this is how much we charge," and they maybe try to haggle with you to lower their rates.
People will pay more if they feel there's more quality. Think about this. When's the last time you went to a Bentley dealership and argued about how much a Bentley cost? You don't. You don't even know how much a Bentley costs half the time. Yeah, because you just know that they're said to be the top-of-the-line car. If you really did research on a Bentley, you find out they only get 12 miles to the gallon, you always have to take them in for service and everything at 5,000 miles, so they're really ... I talked to a guy that sold Bentleys, and he told me it's not affording owning one as far as like purchasing, it's actually the upkeep that most people can't afford.
Most of the time, these cars come back within a year because the upkeep is so much, people buy them and they can't afford them. They have to bring them back. Knowing that, the value has been put up so high with that quality of car. If you can do that with your business, to put up the value so high that people don't even want to ask how much do you charge, you'll win every time, because they've already made the decision that if this is not extremely out of my means, I am going to do business with them, they're not going to bark about the price.
That's the whole goal of authority marketing is to become an authority so much, now I'm not saying that you escalate your price because of it, but so much that that isn't even a concern when you get to the actual closing of the business, because they've already decided they're going to purchase. It's sort of like ... Think about it. How many times have you met people that say that they don't have any money, but then they show up with something that you know costs some money, and you're like, "I thought you didn't have any money?"
Robert Plank: They have priorities.
Jeff Beale: People buy what they want. Exactly. They'll go out and buy some Jordans for $200, but they might not pay their light bill, so you're like, "I thought you were broke." No, they were broke for that. That wasn't of value.
Robert Plank: That's funny, and it sounds like all the things that you're mentioning here today, it seems like you're going after like the emotion of some kind, whatever the hot button is there, like in the case of the Bentley thing it's like, well, who cares about all these little facts and figures when how cool for you to be driving it, and drive it off the lot, and drive it home, people see it. Even like with the floor case study you said there, the number 1 reason to get a new floor is to show it off so everything thinks, "Dang! How'd you get that?" Sure there's like a few little objections or common things there, but it seems like that combination you said there about how you kind of have the wow factor, I guess, have the big raw feeling from using it, and then you kind of have these objections that you know they already have but you explain them away quickly, and that way people can tell that you know what you're doing because you already have their questions in their mind before they even ask them.
Jeff Beale: Exactly. Exactly. It's all about emotions. It's all about understanding what drives a person to make a decision. To be honest, a lot of it doesn't include price. Truly, if you can tap into what makes them work, you can understand that. For instance, people that buy security systems, they don't buy security systems for all the features. They buy to be secure. You can have it to where your mobile phone connects and this and that but it never sets off an alarm ever, people aren't going to buy your security system, because they're like, "Well, that's nice, nice features, but if somebody breaks in, it's not going to help."
You find out what the emotional triggers are. That's why you can't just base it on demographics and geographics. You just can't say "Just because you're this age, this gender, this ethnic group, this income level, you will buy what I'm selling." It's really finding out what keeps them up at night?
Volvo did a great job when they went after the soccer moms. What did Volvo hang their hat on the most? "We are the safest car you'll ever buy." That's what they hung their hat on. They would show the mom with the kids. Moms were like, "I like BMW's, but if I ever was in an accident, I'd be safer in a Volvo," so they bought Volvos. For many years, they thought Volvos were the safest cars out. You look at, let's use televisions. We all love 4K, right?
Robert Plank: Oh yeah.
Jeff Beale: The funny thing is when you ask the sales guy, which if you get an honest one who'll tell you, most of the time you'll never see 4K, because first of all you have to have the right cables, you have to have the right television station, you have to have the right cable box. You have all these things have to be in order for you to even see 4K. They can't sell you a 4K and say, "Well, you probably will see 4K once in a blue moon."
Same thing with cameras. They show you these pictures. It was funny. We was watching a commercial last night. My wife was telling me ... She has an iPhone, actually, and she was like, they were showing a commercial with all these pictures of great photos, and they said taken with the iPhone. My wife was like, "My iPhone pictures don't ever look like that." I said, "Yeah, because it's not Photoshopped." They never said it wasn't edited. They just said "taken with an iPhone."
What you're seeing is after it has been taken, put to production, post production has been done, Photoshop has been done and, yeah, now it looks beautiful, but they're not lying, but they know that most people buy these phones and they take selfies and they want to take pictures, and that's a driving force. People will buy a phone, and I'm guilty, because I just bought my last phone because of that, because I want to make sure my pictures are high quality. I want to make sure my videos are high quality, because I do videos for my marketing, so I want the clearest videos I can get from my phone.
What I found in my research of going through phones, here's the secret with that. Your cameras mostly have ... Most of them have the same megapixel rate. The key is the lighting. That's the key. You can have the highest pixel rate, but if you don't have a lot of light, you're not going to get those great pictures, so that's the secret to it, but they don't tell you that, because if that's the case, you wouldn't buy another phone, you would just go buy some professional lights.
Robert Plank: Interesting.
Jeff Beale: And they sell phones.
Robert Plank: That's pretty cool. Lots of good stuff today, and you had lots of cool stories and little lessons here and there. Where can people find out more about Mr. Jeff Beale? Where can they find out about your book, your blog, and all that cool stuff?
Jeff Beale: Sure. They can actually go to MrMarketology.com. That has everything about me, but even more important, actually the all about me funny is 1 paragraph. You can only find 1 paragraph, but what you will find are marketing strategies such as this, and I'll be talking with other experts and sharing my point of view as well, and you'll find that on the site. Also, my social, all of them: Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, not LinkedIn, Google Plus, are all Mr. Marketology, so if you go to those platforms, look up Mr. Marketology or put Mr. Marketology at the end, you'll find me.
Then you can even find me easily at JeffBeale.com. I try to make myself very accessible, so hopefully if I'm doing my job correctly, you can find me easily.
Robert Plank: Awesome. Thanks for all that stuff and, yeah, I really liked all the marketing nuggets you dropped on us today, and I think that ... The big thing other than the stuff like the 4 C's of marketing and differentiating and course correcting and stuff, I think that, especially that little Apple lesson about how ... That was pretty dang powerful for me. You want a camera that takes good pictures, and they kind of get you with this thing that's true, but also really dang cool, and even showing all these pictures taken with the iPhone, man, it kind of messes you up a little bit, doesn't it? Because you think, "Okay, I want to take good pictures for myself but, man, imagine the possibilities if I could use this same device to take all these awesome photos." Thanks for that lesson there.
Jeff Beale: Oh, you're welcome, man. If there's 1 takeaway that I would like the listeners to know is that understand your audience. Find out exactly who that is, what their needs are, and then find out how can you benefit them? If you can do that and put that into a compelling message, you won't have any problems becoming an authority in your market.
Robert Plank: Perfect. Well said. MrMarketology.com. Thanks so much for being on the show, Jeff.
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