Archive 3: 2018-2020
701: Awareness, Actions, Vulnerabilities, Engagements: Communicate Effectively and Design Your Mind to Be Kind with Elizabeth Barry

Elizabeth Barry is an experienced speaker, author, and entrepreneur. She has curated 17 TEDx talks and coached numerous speakers. As an author, Elizabeth has published books on vulnerability and effective communication. Her upcoming book, "Design Your Mind to Be Kind," focuses on three habits of effective communicators and seven personalities. Today, Elizabeth discusses the importance of lifelong learning in communication, listening, and speaking one's truth kindly.
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We all need to be a life long learner when it comes to communicating, listening, speaking out truth, saying what we mean and meaning what we say.
It's all about being brave and courageous to live in our moment of truth but to speak it kindly.
- Its all about designing your mind to be kind through our COMMUNIICATION HABITS.
- Its based in nature,there are macrophotographies and photographies of wildlife like birds and insects credit to @wildjerseycity instagram account.
- It features more on nature of birds which is related to the 3 habits of effective communicators.
The 3 habits of effective communicators
To follow the catch - first method
- Catching our selves are really difficult especially if our relationship and communication breaks down.
- We need to learn to catch our selves, our words, our phrase eetc
- The idea of this catch is it comes to AWARENESS and ACTIONS
AWARENESS - can help us to understand we don't have to say things in the meaning ways, in the way that we wish to and take it back to the real time.
ACTION - Awareness is nothing without action. You apologize in real time or holding our words in especially hurting people
To fly above yourself - just like the birds wings
- touching your weaknesses humility and vulnerabilities
- it happens when you are in the moment of stress, obstacles, challenges of communication breakdown see how you react
- real time practical tip: fly above your self meaning think of your greatest mentor
Use your words wisely- like birds singing nicely
- tips to lessen our speaking, listening and taking care to our selves
- gaining real time engagement
- in a conversation, thinking how worthy are you in corporate or in entrepreneur
These habits will help to reflect oneself to become better person and communicator. Transformation is not just sharing quotes, memes and articles through social media. It needs WORK.
Quotes
“We all need to be lifelong learners when it comes to communicating, listening, speaking our truth, saying what we mean, and meaning what we say. It's about being brave and courageous enough to live in our moment of truth, but to speak it kindly.” - Elizabeth Barry
“Communication is a very complicated thing. It's a deeply layered way of coming into our adulthood, our career, our career transition, our best selves, or what I call a life fulfilled.” - Elizabeth Barry
“There's no need to feel shame. There's always a wonderful opportunity to say to yourself, 'I am going to be vulnerable to own that mistake. I'm going to be vulnerable to own that flaw, and I'm going to do better next time.’ Because that's the practice of it.” - Elizabeth Barry
Takeaways
04:04 Becoming aware of one's words, phrases, and mannerisms is crucial for effective communication and self-improvement.
05:51 Gaining humility and self-awareness by observing one's reactions from an imaginary standpoint can help improve communication in challenging situations.
09:29 Choosing words wisely, both when speaking to others and to oneself, can reflect self-worth and integrity.
12:32 Continuous self-reflection and a willingness to learn and improve are essential for enhancing communication skills.
14:01 Vulnerability and kindness are key elements in effective and meaningful communication.
Resources
- Get a copy of The Kind Communicator: Kindness, Compassion and Wisdom for all Business Leaders by Elizabeth Barry on Amazon
- Elizabeth Barry Consulting Official
- Connect with Elizabeth Barry on LinkedIn
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700: Fresh Inspiration: Live Your Best Life and Learn to Trust Yourself Using The Three Pillars: Workout, Food, and Mindset with Rhonda Liebig

Rhonda Liebig is a health and wellness expert with over 20 years of experience in the industry. She is known as the "Energy Revitalized and Mindset Mentor," helping clients achieve freedom in their bodies and cash flow. Rhonda has her own website, RhondaLiebig.com, where she shares her expertise. Today, Rhonda talks about her journey of overcoming hyperthyroidism and getting off medication. She shares her signature "Three Energy Revitalized Pillars" - workout, food, and mindset - which have helped her and her clients make significant changes.
Quotes
“If you do everything the way you're doing it right now, you can expect the same results you've been getting. And that's when things start shifting.” - Rhonda Liebig
“I believe, in the deepest part of my being, that if we go on this journey, learn to understand our body, and learn how to release stress in a profound way—not just superficially—that's where the journey starts.” - Rhonda Liebig
“The truth is, we have so much life experience, but if we don't cultivate a mindset of gratitude and look for the positive things in life, we can become inconsistent. That mindset helps keep us balanced, rather than being brought up and down.” - Rhonda Liebig
Takeaways
02:15 Celebrating small wins and practicing gratitude can help build confidence and momentum in one's health journey.
13:29 Aligning one's business and personal life can create a more fulfilling and successful path.
16:41 Addressing mental and emotional aspects, in addition to physical health, is key to unlocking overall well-being.
28:02 Examining long-standing habits or routines can lead to positive changes in one's health and well-being.
31:13 Integrating a balanced approach of exercise, nutrition, and mindset is crucial for achieving sustainable wellness.
Resources
- Rhonda Liebig: Holistic Health Coach
- Follow The Fresh Inspiration Show on Facebook
- Subscribe to Rhonda Liebig on YouTube
- Connect with Rhonda Liebig on LinkedIn
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699: Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable, Understand Your Numbers, Calculate Your Hourly Rate, and Implement a Winner’s Mindset with John Kennedy

John Kennedy is a certified financial planner who focuses on helping business owners scale their companies. He co-founded Candor Path Financial, a firm that provides fractional CFO services to entrepreneurs. Today, John discusses the benefits of working with a fractional CFO, highlighting how it can help business owners manage their finances, understand key performance indicators, and make informed decisions.
Quotes
“We oftentimes prioritize urgency over importance. And I thought, 'Man, oh man, that's so true,’ and that just defines all of what we're talking about here.” - John Kennedy
“For the clients we work with, if we invest in technology and automation correctly, there are no geographical boundaries. You can travel and spend time with your family, kids, and grandkids, without being confined to a nine-to-five office schedule.” - John Kennedy
“We really enjoy having one-on-one conversations with individuals and business owners. So, at the very least, let's have a conversation. We're absolutely open to it.” - John Kennedy
Takeaways
02:06 Fractional CFO services can provide valuable financial guidance and accountability for small business owners who may not be able to afford a full-time CFO.
04:14 Outsourcing and leveraging technology can help business owners focus on their core competencies and improve efficiency.
07:25 Understanding your hourly rate and identifying tasks that can be outsourced at a lower cost can lead to significant financial benefits.
16:09 Retirement planning for business owners is evolving, with many continuing to work in some capacity even after selling their businesses.
19:57 Passion and finding work that aligns with your interests can be a key driver of success and fulfillment in both business and life.
Resources
- CandorPath: Our Guidance. Your Journey. An Ensemble Approach to Financial Planning
- Connect with John Kennedy on LinkedIn
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698: Sales and Marketing Funnels: Build Trust and Credibility with Mark Mersman

Mark Mersman is the chief marketing officer at USA Financial. Prior to joining the firm in 2004, he entered the world of financial planning by launching his own firm at the age of 22.
He was the host of a nationally syndicated radio show for 6 years and now focuses much of his time on developing outbound and inbound marketing systems for independent financial professionals. He is the author of a wide range of content from marketing to investment management that have been published in industry publications like the Wall Street Journal, Barrons, Financial Advisor Magazine and Investopedia. Mark is also the host of a podcast about marketing for financial advisors titled “16 Ways From Sunday.”
Quotes
“We really have to focus on getting the steps in the sales and marketing funnel in place, and ultimately ensure that we're establishing trust, building credibility, and maintaining interest through nurture campaigns.” - Mark Mersman
“A lot of professionals in our industry just give up. They don't have nurture campaigns that continually put out their thought leadership and keep them in front of their audience.” - Mark Mersman
“Our industry has always had a problem with the perception that it's purely a sales industry. While it's true that we're all selling something, it's really about how you're positioning what it is that you're selling.” - Mark Mersman
Takeaways
01:14 Building trust and credibility is crucial in the financial services industry, as clients are often hesitant to hand over large sums of money.
06:34 Offering paid services, such as financial planning, can help establish commitment from potential clients and increase the likelihood of closing larger deals.
14:50 Targeting life events and triggering moments can create a sense of urgency and encourage prospects to take action.
20:53 Consistently providing valuable content and thought leadership can help nurture leads and build trust over time.
26:49 Focusing on existing clients and teaching them to make personal introductions can lead to higher closing rates and lower acquisition costs.
Resources
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697: Frame of Mind Coaching: Journal Your Way to Better Focus, Clarity, Thinking and Success with Kim Ades

Kim Ades is the President and Founder of Frame of Mind Coaching™ and JournalEngine™ Software. Author, speaker, entrepreneur, coach, and mom of five, Kim has 15 years of experience coaching many of North America’s most respected leaders. Recognized as an expert in the area of thought mastery, Kim uses her unique philosophy and quirky coaching style to help her clients deal with core issues and shift their thinking in order to yield extraordinary results.
Quotes
“Journaling allows us to dream and have a vision.” - Kim Ades
“I understand how people work. I understand how people think, and I can see very quickly how their thinking is either supporting them or hurting them.” - Kim Ades
“One of the most important questions I constantly have to ask myself is, 'What is the key value that I can bring to the world that is unique? What’s that unique thing I bring to the world that isn't so easily replicable?” - Kim Ades
Takeaways
06:36 The Journal Engine software provides users with flexibility to choose how they want to engage with the journaling process, whether privately, with a community, or with a qualified responder, allowing for a personalized experience.
11:53 Identifying and focusing on one's unique value proposition is crucial in a crowded market.
16:08 Journaling can reveal hidden beliefs and patterns that may be holding someone back from achieving their goals.
18:53 Having a qualified person provide feedback and guidance on one's journal entries can help drive personal growth and transformation.
19:40 Seeking feedback from trusted advisors and being open to pivoting one's business strategy can lead to valuable insights and new opportunities.
20:24 Maintaining a consistent journaling habit can be challenging, but software like Journal Engine can help sustain the practice by providing a responsive and interactive experience.
Resources
- Frame of Mind Coaching®: Delivers Intimate, Intense and Powerful Executive-level Coaching to Highly Driven Leaders, Executives and Entrepreneurs.
- JournalEngine™: Become The Impactful Coach You Were Meant To Be
- Connect with Kim Ades on LinkedIn
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696: Followers, Doers, and Experts: Delegate to Build the Right Team of Outsourced Employees with Freeeup Co-Founder Nathan Hirsch

Nathan Hirsch is an entrepreneur and the co-founder and CEO of FreeUp.com, an online marketplace that connects businesses with pre-vetted freelancers in e-commerce and digital marketing. Nathan has sold over $30 million online and regularly appears on leading business podcasts. Today, Nathan discusses the importance of hiring and delegating tasks to free up time and focus on being the figurehead and boss.
Quotes
“If you don't hire, you just hit a ceiling that you can't get past. There are also people out there who are not only better than you at certain things but also enjoy them more than you do.” - Nathan Hirsch
“If you're constantly throwing stuff out there, that's when things start to stick.” - Nathan Hirsch
“Don't give up. No one has a 100% hiring record. There will be failures along the way, but focus on what you can control—your systems, your processes—and that's how you improve that hiring percentage.” - Nathan Hirsch
Takeaways
02:37 Hiring the right people can help entrepreneurs avoid hitting a ceiling and focus on tasks they enjoy.
05:38 Trying different marketing strategies and ideas through a trial-and-error process can lead to successful business growth.
11:15 Clearly communicating expectations and providing detailed instructions is crucial when delegating tasks to freelancers.
16:29 Categorizing freelancers into followers, doers, and experts can help entrepreneurs hire the right type of worker for specific tasks.
27:09 Maintaining a long-term mindset and focusing on what can be controlled are key to successful hiring and delegation.
Resources
- FreeUp: Get more done faster. Hire pre-vetted freelancers.
- OutSource School: Go From Zero Help to Hiring & Scaling With Virtual Assistants
- Connect with Nathan Hirsch on LinkedIn
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695: Generate Sales Calls Every Day, Achieve Household Name Status, Increase Your Monthly Recurring Revenue Using Authority Marketing with Josh Elledge

Josh Elledge is U.S. Navy veteran and launched UpMyInfluence.com to help entrepreneurs attract the perfect audiences and grow their brands without the crazy costs associated with traditional PR companies.
UpMyInfluence’s purpose is to DEMOCRATIZE access to influence. Josh believes he has a moral imperative to help entrepreneurs serve the world with their collective messages while growing their revenue!
UpMyInfluence was the natural outgrowth of his first startup, SavingsAngel.com which has grossed more than $6 million in sales with less than $500 in advertising. He did it all through building authority and serving audiences in the media.
Josh is a weekly TV consumer expert in Orlando, writes a syndicated newspaper column to 1.1 million readers, and regularly appears on more than 75 TV stations across the country. All told, Josh has appeared in the media more than 2000 times.
Quotes
“Humans will discriminate in terms of whether they should take a call with a person, click on an ad, or engage in some way. So, you have to gain their trust.” - Josh Elledge
“Everybody has a message that could positively impact the world. And if you have influence, you can truly make that impact. What is in your heart is probably amazing.” - Josh Elledge
“If you want to get through to people who jealously guard their time, you have to lead with just presenting an offer. That's a no-brainer.” - Josh Elledge
Takeaways
02:02 Building personal authority through online profiles, social media, and content creation is crucial for gaining trust and influence with potential clients.
08:14 Providing value and building relationships through a "go-giver" approach, such as hosting a podcast, can be more effective than traditional sales tactics in attracting and converting clients.
09:47 Carefully vetting and selecting guests for a podcast can help ensure they are a good fit for the target audience and potential client base.
17:09 Leveraging video and follow-up communication to maintain engagement and provide additional value can help nurture leads and increase conversion rates.
20:26 Focusing on providing a high-quality product or service and understanding the target market's needs are essential for building a successful and sustainable business.
23:05 Facing challenges in hiring enough staff to meet the growing demand for the company's services is a positive sign of the system's effectiveness.
Resources
- Up My Influence: A B2B sales consulting agency that drives guaranteed results like no one before
- Connect with Josh Elledge on LinkedIn
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694: From Impossible to Inevitable: Apply the Winning Mindset to Locate Your Ideal Customer, Solve Problems, and Generate Predictable Revenue with Aaron Ross

Aaron Ross is the co-CEO of Predictable Revenue and the author of the book "From Impossible to Inevitable." Today, Aaron discusses finding your ideal customer and speaking their language, as well as the need to be comfortable with being uncomfortable when trying to reach new audiences. He shares his own experiences of growing his income and business, as well as the challenges of balancing a large family with his entrepreneurial pursuits.
Quotes
“Comfort is the enemy of growth and success. It's okay to be uncomfortable. You can't grow without feeling that way.” - Aaron Ross
“I can't afford to wait to win. I have the time, the energy, the ideas, and the money to do something, to start a business. I just had to do things.” - Aaron Ross
“We all have different ways that we self-sabotage or show weaknesses. It's just the human condition. No one's perfect.” - Aaron Ross
Takeaways
04:22 The most common reason people struggle to grow revenue is not having a clear, defined niche.
05:56 As a business grows, the attention span of new potential customers becomes increasingly shorter, requiring different messaging and targeting.
08:34 Embracing discomfort and being willing to reach out to new audiences that may not know you is key to continued growth.
11:46 Developing financial confidence and resilience is more valuable than just having financial savings.
17:09 Utilizing "forcing functions" like public deadlines and commitments can help overcome procrastination and lack of motivation.
23:03 Understanding your own strengths, weaknesses, and tendencies to self-sabotage is key to overcoming obstacles and making progress, as everyone struggles with these issues to some degree.
Resources
- From Impossible To Inevitable: ORDER YOUR COPY TODAY!
- Predictable Revenue: Humans + AI: Outbound that actually works.
- Get a copy of Predictable Revenue: Turn Your Business Into A Sales Machine With The $100 Million Best Practices Of Salesforce.com on Amazon
- Get a copy of From Impossible to Inevitable: How SaaS and Other Hyper-Growth Companies Create Predictable Revenue on Amazon
- Connect with Aaron Ross on LinkedIn
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693: Get Paid to Build Your Skills and Increase Your Hourly Rate: Master the Freelancer and Career Game with Nissar Ahamed

Nissar Ahamed is the founder and CEO of CareerMetis.com, a one-stop destination for job seekers and freelancers. He is also the host of the Career Insider Podcast and the co-host of the C.A.R.E. podcast. Today, Nissar discusses the significant shift in the freelancing and gig economy, noting that it has become a mainstream career choice.
Quotes
“If you're not making money in the long term, and you have all the resources, it's on you. There's no excuses. Others have done it. You can do it as well.” - Nissar Ahamed
“Initially, you have to find clients. Then you become so successful that they come to you.” - Nissar Ahamed
“No matter what you want to do, follow your path. I think you'll get to a point where, no matter what age you are, you'll find your path. Don't do it for someone else.” - Nissar Ahamed
Takeaways
00:47 Freelancing has become a mainstream career choice, with 30-50 million Americans engaged in freelance work, a number that is growing due to technology and the gig economy.
02:59 Starting a side hustle in a desired field can help build a portfolio and skills that can lead to a full-time job or the pursuit of a passion project.
08:43 Persistence and hustle are crucial in the initial stages of freelancing, as building a strong reputation and client base takes time and effort.
15:06 Successful freelancers don't just rely on one platform. They market themselves across multiple channels.
21:33 Joining online communities, such as Facebook groups and Slack channels, can be valuable for finding clients and support in the freelancing journey.
26:07 Balancing a full-time job with freelancing can help reduce risk and build a stable income, while gradually transitioning to a full-time freelance career.
Resources
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692: Guest Expert Profits: Build Relationships and Enjoy Consistent Podcasting Traffic with Jessica Rhodes

Jessica Rhodes is the founder and co-owner of Interview Connections, a leading podcast booking agency. She has been a guest on numerous podcasts, sharing her expertise on leveraging podcast interviews for business growth. Today, Jessica discusses the power of podcasting for building relationships and driving consistent traffic to businesses.
Resources
- Interview Connections: We Will Help You Become the Leading Expert In Your Industry With the Power of Podcast Guesting!
- Connect with Jessica Rhodes on LinkedIn
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